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Author Topic: Women's advise needed

January 05, 2020, 06:42:52 PM
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Shortstreet


Would like to see a woman's perspective on my situation...so the GF and I have been together 9 yrs..during these 9 yrs she has constantly been digging trying to find me cheating, talking to other women, etc.etc etc....I am totally honest when I say I have done anything to hurt our relationship. I could look God in the eyes and say that..thats how serious I am in our relationship... the problem is she has a friend and a couple relatives say she can not and never should trust any guys thats works on the road... They have went through my computer, old cell phone's, emails..I have even went as far as to give her all my passwords..but she still digs.... I love her more and more everyday... a week ago she left after a fight we had and is staying at her daughters... yesterday she came over to talk and said we're done..also said a couple times she still loves me...she stayed about 90 minutes then said her daughter was here to pick her up....what do I do??

January 08, 2020, 07:30:20 AM
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SimonEA


have you asked her what she really want besides trusting you?

January 14, 2020, 11:58:57 PM
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bre1994


If she’s that determined to find you cheating maybe it’s because she has some dirt herself... maybe you need to dig too.

January 29, 2020, 09:26:41 AM
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Kkxrina


I believe you need to sit her down and tell her that what she is doing is incredibly unacceptable and hurtful. If you guys don't have trust you basically have nothing. Her insecurities are getting the best of her and allowing her to act in a way that is indeed sabotaging the relationship and you guys need to communicate better about it.

March 07, 2020, 12:58:51 AM
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samsome369


hi gal, I was in your shoes before. and here's an article that really helped me when I was struggling at the bottom.
I hope it could give you some enlightenment and inspiration like it helped me  :)

http://back.ly/Ay4dc

wish you have a great future with your loved one.

March 09, 2020, 03:37:18 PM
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Purgamentum


There are a couple reasons that could explain her behaviour besides her family trying to influence her thoughts and opinions of people that work on the road being "cheaters".

1. In the past she may have been cheated on either one, or multiple times, so it's a constant fear that she has.
2. She herself has something that she is hiding. Whether it be she has cheated on someone else in the past, you, or there's another related reason.

The best thing to do is to sit down and have a conversation with her. Ask her why she believes that you're cheating on her. If the only reason is that her family and peers are causing this, maybe you could talk to them and approach the issue.
"The happiest people don't have the best of everything, they just make the best of everything."

 

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