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Author Topic: Will he ever marry me?

October 16, 2019, 04:27:42 PM
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My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. I'm 35 and he's 46. We live in different countries but only 2-hour flight apart. He's the most beautiful incredible person, very honest, kind, and loving. But he has been going through a career shift even before he met me and still going through it now, as we speak. So he struggles with money and it embarrasses him the fact that he's not capable of providing for us as a man/ partner. I always tell him that he really doesn't need to be rich for us to be happy together and that I really want this LDR to end asap. Even though we have discussed the idea of marriage in the long run, he gets really overwhelmed, emotional, and shuts down (we had this conversation many times and his reaction was the same) when I ask him about his short term plans that could lead us to our long term plan. I know that he's diligently looking for opportunities and business deals to close. Sadly, for him, the only way to be happy is, if and only if he's rich and successful again and I can't convince him that it's not the only thing in life that matters.  I really don't want to keep waiting because I really love him and all I want is to start a life with him but I'm really scared if I ever bring this topic, he'll be mad at me again. Do I just keep waiting, should I give him an ultimatum, or wait for a divine intervention. I'm really sad and confused.


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