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Author Topic: Why does he think that I don't have any flaws?

February 07, 2019, 09:41:40 PM
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Rose4


I asked this guy, who's a close friend of mine and is married, if he has ever thought of me as annoying. He's said that I never was to him. But, I remember times when I was annoying and I pointed it out to him with examples from the past, which are true. Yet, he still says that I'm not. He's even said that out of all of his friends, who are annoying or bother him, it's never been the case with me. He even sometimes talks about his wife to me and says that she even annoys him with the things that she does and he thinks that he annoys her at times. But, he has said some positive things about her as well. Then, he said that he's certain that I don't think of him as annoying. I just said no. But, in reality, I kind of do. At least with one thing. He always copies my actions and words and it gets on my nerves at times, but I just try to ignore it because it's not a big deal. Why does he think that I'm never annoying and thinks that others are annoying?

February 08, 2019, 02:59:50 PM
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MrStan


From a guys perspective

He might be ok with the thing you think are annoying because he likes spending time with you and talking to you. i dont know how much the two of you talk, but its not wierd his wife is more anoying as he sees her alsmost every hour of the day!.
I can personally say that if he tells you you are not annoying to him, he tollerates everything you find annoying about yourself.

i hope it helps!

February 08, 2019, 04:11:05 PM
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Rose4


From a guys perspective

He might be ok with the thing you think are annoying because he likes spending time with you and talking to you. i dont know how much the two of you talk, but its not wierd his wife is more anoying as he sees her alsmost every hour of the day!.
I can personally say that if he tells you you are not annoying to him, he tollerates everything you find annoying about yourself.

i hope it helps!

This does. Thank you! I can see how that could play out when you're around your spouse all of the time. I usually see him often (a few days within each week). But, it also just makes me wonder how he could see me as not being annoying at all when he hangs out with me, but when it comes to his friends, he finds them to be annoying. His friends and I hang out with him about the same amount of times.