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Author Topic: Why can't I get over a crush from years ago

October 25, 2020, 11:07:46 PM
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Addie2022


When I was 12 I met a boy in science class. I was very quiet and struggled with severe health problems as well as depression/anxiety so I wasn't super boy crazy but I'm really pretty so I always had/have boys talking to me. One day this boy in my science class turned around to talk to me and I instantly fell for him, which is/was out of character for me. We only talked for a few weeks because I moved out of that class soon after. I was devastated because I really really liked him. He had a lot of friends but was not traditionally the "Cool" popular guy. He was quiet but if you talked to him he could carry a conversation like we had known each other for years. He was like the guy version of me and not a rude hormonal teen like the rest of the guys that talked to me. I never ended up talking to him again until we graduated high school.  I made the effort to reach out to him to try to start a conversation again but he didn't continue it and was nice but clearly did not wanna talk to me, so I left it alone ever since. I hoped to just forget all about it but I can't. It's hard because we still have each other on social media and he ended up going to the same college as me in the same major so it's like I can't forget him because he keeps popping up in my life.Not to mention he gets better and better looking as we get older, and more successful than all our peers. All his friends and every other guy I meet legit begs to have sex with me but he just doesn't care enough to even talk to me as friends and I just can't let it go. I can't shake the feeling that I need to somehow be with him even though theres rumors of him being a cheater and a player.  I have very high standards for men but I just can't let him go even though he has changed a lot since we were 12 and would likely be a horrible partner nowadays. Maybe I just need to meet someone better? I'm fully aware it's ridiculous but I just can't get him out of my head. How do I get over this? I really thought i'd be over him long by now

November 20, 2020, 05:12:06 AM
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Solom


It depends on who you are giving this gift to. If it is a girl, it will depend on the type of girl you are with. I advise you to meet a normal girl over here https://www.douwant.me/couples-dating.html  for example here, because if they only want money from you, it is not right. Imagine you get sick, then what? They'll ditch you for another guy at the same time!

November 21, 2020, 01:33:10 PM
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frankie


He doesnt act like a traditional needy guy. You say your pretty, so im assuming a lot of guys throw themselves at you, tell you what they think you want to hear, and chase you in hopes of getting with you. He's different, and doesnt put you on a pedestal like every other guy does. He treats you the same way he treats everyone else. 

 

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