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December 20, 2018, 11:13:34 AM
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Tehilah27


What is your greatest fear in a relationship? My greatest fear is that i will love more than I am loved. I do not want to devote my life to someone who only tolerates me. I want to enjoy my relationship and know it will weather any storm that comes our way. What is your greatest fear in your relationship?

December 20, 2018, 09:27:28 PM
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katarinamurtin


No fears, I guess. I can't think of any. So what if you love him/her more? Someone has to do it.

December 21, 2018, 02:23:42 AM
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faithuy56


What is your greatest fear in a relationship? My greatest fear is that i will love more than I am loved. I do not want to devote my life to someone who only tolerates me. I want to enjoy my relationship and know it will weather any storm that comes our way. What is your greatest fear in your relationship?
There is no fear in love for love casts out fear. You only fear when relationship is just based in lust for sex. Love accepts the person without any condition. True love is unconditional. Love covers multitude of sins. It conquers all. Love will weather the storm.

December 25, 2018, 02:21:17 PM
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Esthrala


I fear distance. I don't think I can be in a long distance relationship. Some people  can, and I admire them for that, but I can't.

I need my love to hug me, kiss me, and hold me when I'm super happy or super sad. For me, physical connection can really strengthen a relationship, together with emotional bond. These two works perfectly for me to be able to have a healthy love life. Love, for me is not just a strong feeling, it's a fulltime commitment of your whole being to someone.
Esthrala🤓

December 26, 2018, 12:31:51 AM
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ghednepo


My fear in relationship is the break up process, because it hurts me a lot and this is the hardest part because it hard to forget all the memories and feeling for the person

December 27, 2018, 02:01:32 PM
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Rathiel


My greatest fear in a relationship is, if the relationship doesn't pan out, the processing of everything that went sour afterwards. Sometimes, it's a little nerve-wracking to break up with someone. Especially if the very reason for your break up is their toxic behavior. It's always good to be cautious.

That isn't to say that it's just fear. Some break ups are mutual and both parties have fallen out of love. It hurts, but that is far better than living together without the love there anymore.

December 28, 2018, 12:28:26 AM
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menchuuy58


What is your greatest fear in a relationship? My greatest fear is that i will love more than I am loved. I do not want to devote my life to someone who only tolerates me. I want to enjoy my relationship and know it will weather any storm that comes our way. What is your greatest fear in your relationship?
My  greatest fear in relationship is the losing of love and happiness. I believe that we are to be happy in relationships. When we lose that joy because of anger and other bad emotions, it is not good anymore. It is toxic.

January 14, 2019, 03:24:30 PM
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Wegatelove


The biggest fear in a relationship is that I stop learning, growing and exploring. Which of course happens when I take the little things for granted. When I assume it’s normal to get kisses or normal to get help because I always have.
I believe that all relations are spiritual and diving into this universe of exploring love is the never ending journey

January 26, 2019, 01:24:55 AM
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annalauraa21


My greatest fear is that the bliss of my "first love" will never be matched. Not sure if it's the age that makes first loves so enthralling or just experiencing it for the first time, but nothing measures and I have never been able to find a feeling that compares. I'm afraid that will never change.

January 26, 2019, 08:47:24 PM
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Whitwhat


Genuine interest. Me liking them more than they like me.

January 27, 2019, 08:22:43 PM
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NikkiLove


My fear is getting so close and attached to someone and they turn around and cheat on me.. I would be so hurt

January 31, 2019, 06:27:37 AM
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OneWayLove


What is your greatest fear in a relationship? My greatest fear is that i will love more than I am loved. I do not want to devote my life to someone who only tolerates me. I want to enjoy my relationship and know it will weather any storm that comes our way. What is your greatest fear in your relationship?
There is no fear in love for love casts out fear. You only fear when relationship is just based in lust for sex. Love accepts the person without any condition. True love is unconditional. Love covers multitude of sins. It conquers all. Love will weather the storm.

Yeah that's right. But i think this is not easy as it says. Some of us have bad experiences in a relationship. Me personally it is hard to trust someone. But we cannot allow fear in our relationships.
If the question is greatest fear in a relationship mine is that after you trust someone they will just leave you or cheat on you. https://oneandonlywayloveblog.weebly.com/onewaylove I think if the relationship is God-centered you have nothing to fear :)

March 10, 2019, 09:18:57 PM
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frozenheart


My biggest fear in a relationship is dishonesty. Communication is the most important part of a healthy relationship, and if that factor is absent then it's really easy for simply not telling your partner certain things to turn into straight up lying about certain things. That's really bad.

May 07, 2019, 04:31:07 PM
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AnsleyHope


My biggest fear is to be cheated on. I've been cheated on in every relationship I have been in. So seeing it happen again would scare me pretty bad

May 10, 2019, 08:00:00 AM
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Ariesxvi


I fear dishonesty. I can only trust their words and actions but if they’re lying, what can I trust? Everything will be doubted and I can’t tell right from wrong.

May 10, 2019, 07:52:28 PM
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Lakrisal


For me, I'd say I fear feeling alone. Feeling as if the other person does not care, or is shutting me out, or is not bothering to include me in different aspects of their lives. Don't get me wrong, I still think it's important to have your own interests and your own circle of friends, but I want to feel like the other person wants me in their life and wants to share their thoughts, feelings, dreams and fears with me.

May 11, 2019, 07:40:36 AM
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DestroytheHomeworld


Due to some pretty bad previous experiences I fear a lot of things in a relationship, mostly miscommunication causing a rift that can't be fixed. I am trying to overcome my fear of being used as a trophy or an object like I was previously. Its been difficult for me to adjust back to the mindset that not every guy out there is going to use me.

May 11, 2019, 08:25:07 PM
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Whitefeather23


To be cheated on. actually i recently broke up with my 4years boyfriend because he cheated and that fear Just got bigger  :(

May 12, 2019, 02:40:23 AM
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nckristen


My biggest fear is being cheated on. I've already been cheated on by 2 other relationships in the past. It's very damaging. Especially in the relationship I'm currently in, I absolutely love this man with everything in me. Him cheating would destroy me, and I don't think I'd ever find anyone else fit for me.

May 14, 2019, 02:45:41 AM
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Lookingfortheone77


Truthfully, losing myself.  Becoming so codependent that he just consumes me and I no longer care so much about myself, but rely on his feelings to feel good about myself.  Losing all self control.

May 22, 2019, 04:59:40 PM
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Hi

I am Sanderson and I am here to give my best advice for those people who are much afraid in a relationship. I am also facing this type of fear in a relationship with a guy. some basics fear which is helping to increase much more fear on our face. like as the biggest fear is if we assume you will lose interest in your partner, or your partner will lose interest in you. other we have fear about if the communication aspect of a relationship is the biggest problem. I think one of my biggest fears is when you start talking to someone and you both clearly enjoy each other’s time, but you don’t want to be too clingy or assume anything so you don’t know how to take it to the next level. and I’ve been scared to fall in love because I am afraid it just won’t last. I’ve been so invested in a person before, totally in love, and watched before my eyes as he fell out of love with me every day. these are simple things but we have created big things it is just our thinking not happening like that is present. LoveLearnings is one of the website which is very helpful to get out of my fear. they will provide a step-by-step solution to the common dating problems, marriages, helping to improve your relationships, and other common issues in couples. If you are looking like these problems I am suggesting you should go to the best website which is helpful for you and where found your best solution!

May 25, 2019, 12:39:00 AM
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lyras66


My fear would be my significant other mistreating me. Let's say if I were to get with someone and they seemed all nice and loving from the start, but then the person begins to mistreat me after feeling like I could trust and feel safe with that person, then that would be the scary and damaging part for me.

 

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