Author Topic: WHAT DO YOU FEAR MOST IN A RELATIONSHIP?

Tehilah27 · December 20, 2018, 11:13:34 AM

What is your greatest fear in a relationship? My greatest fear is that i will love more than I am loved. I do not want to devote my life to someone who only tolerates me. I want to enjoy my relationship and know it will weather any storm that comes our way. What is your greatest fear in your relationship?

katarinamurtin · December 20, 2018, 09:27:28 PM

No fears, I guess. I can't think of any. So what if you love him/her more? Someone has to do it.

faithuy56 · December 21, 2018, 02:23:42 AM

Quote from: Tehilah27 on December 20, 2018, 11:13:34 AM

What is your greatest fear in a relationship? My greatest fear is that i will love more than I am loved. I do not want to devote my life to someone who only tolerates me. I want to enjoy my relationship and know it will weather any storm that comes our way. What is your greatest fear in your relationship?

There is no fear in love for love casts out fear. You only fear when relationship is just based in lust for sex. Love accepts the person without any condition. True love is unconditional. Love covers multitude of sins. It conquers all. Love will weather the storm.

Esthrala · December 25, 2018, 02:21:17 PM

I fear distance. I don't think I can be in a long distance relationship. Some people can, and I admire them for that, but I can't.

I need my love to hug me, kiss me, and hold me when I'm super happy or super sad. For me, physical connection can really strengthen a relationship, together with emotional bond. These two works perfectly for me to be able to have a healthy love life. Love, for me is not just a strong feeling, it's a fulltime commitment of your whole being to someone.

ghednepo · December 26, 2018, 12:31:51 AM

My fear in relationship is the break up process, because it hurts me a lot and this is the hardest part because it hard to forget all the memories and feeling for the person

Rathiel · December 27, 2018, 02:01:32 PM

My greatest fear in a relationship is, if the relationship doesn't pan out, the processing of everything that went sour afterwards. Sometimes, it's a little nerve-wracking to break up with someone. Especially if the very reason for your break up is their toxic behavior. It's always good to be cautious.

That isn't to say that it's just fear. Some break ups are mutual and both parties have fallen out of love. It hurts, but that is far better than living together without the love there anymore.

menchuuy58 · December 28, 2018, 12:28:26 AM

Quote from: Tehilah27 on December 20, 2018, 11:13:34 AM

What is your greatest fear in a relationship? My greatest fear is that i will love more than I am loved. I do not want to devote my life to someone who only tolerates me. I want to enjoy my relationship and know it will weather any storm that comes our way. What is your greatest fear in your relationship?

My greatest fear in relationship is the losing of love and happiness. I believe that we are to be happy in relationships. When we lose that joy because of anger and other bad emotions, it is not good anymore. It is toxic.

Wegatelove · January 14, 2019, 03:24:30 PM

The biggest fear in a relationship is that I stop learning, growing and exploring. Which of course happens when I take the little things for granted. When I assume it’s normal to get kisses or normal to get help because I always have.
I believe that all relations are spiritual and diving into this universe of exploring love is the never ending journey

annalauraa21 · January 26, 2019, 01:24:55 AM

My greatest fear is that the bliss of my "first love" will never be matched. Not sure if it's the age that makes first loves so enthralling or just experiencing it for the first time, but nothing measures and I have never been able to find a feeling that compares. I'm afraid that will never change.

Whitwhat · January 26, 2019, 08:47:24 PM

Genuine interest. Me liking them more than they like me.

NikkiLove · January 27, 2019, 08:22:43 PM

My fear is getting so close and attached to someone and they turn around and cheat on me.. I would be so hurt

OneWayLove · January 31, 2019, 06:27:37 AM

Quote from: faithuy56 on December 21, 2018, 02:23:42 AM

Quote from: Tehilah27 on December 20, 2018, 11:13:34 AM
What is your greatest fear in a relationship? My greatest fear is that i will love more than I am loved. I do not want to devote my life to someone who only tolerates me. I want to enjoy my relationship and know it will weather any storm that comes our way. What is your greatest fear in your relationship?
There is no fear in love for love casts out fear. You only fear when relationship is just based in lust for sex. Love accepts the person without any condition. True love is unconditional. Love covers multitude of sins. It conquers all. Love will weather the storm.

Yeah that's right. But i think this is not easy as it says. Some of us have bad experiences in a relationship. Me personally it is hard to trust someone. But we cannot allow fear in our relationships.
If the question is greatest fear in a relationship mine is that after you trust someone they will just leave you or cheat on you. https://oneandonlywayloveblog.weebly.com/onewaylove I think if the relationship is God-centered you have nothing to fear

frozenheart · March 10, 2019, 09:18:57 PM

My biggest fear in a relationship is dishonesty. Communication is the most important part of a healthy relationship, and if that factor is absent then it's really easy for simply not telling your partner certain things to turn into straight up lying about certain things. That's really bad.

AnsleyHope · May 07, 2019, 04:31:07 PM

My biggest fear is to be cheated on. I've been cheated on in every relationship I have been in. So seeing it happen again would scare me pretty bad

Ariesxvi · May 10, 2019, 08:00:00 AM

I fear dishonesty. I can only trust their words and actions but if they’re lying, what can I trust? Everything will be doubted and I can’t tell right from wrong.

Lakrisal · May 10, 2019, 07:52:28 PM

For me, I'd say I fear feeling alone. Feeling as if the other person does not care, or is shutting me out, or is not bothering to include me in different aspects of their lives. Don't get me wrong, I still think it's important to have your own interests and your own circle of friends, but I want to feel like the other person wants me in their life and wants to share their thoughts, feelings, dreams and fears with me.

DestroytheHomeworld · May 11, 2019, 07:40:36 AM

Due to some pretty bad previous experiences I fear a lot of things in a relationship, mostly miscommunication causing a rift that can't be fixed. I am trying to overcome my fear of being used as a trophy or an object like I was previously. Its been difficult for me to adjust back to the mindset that not every guy out there is going to use me.

Whitefeather23 · May 11, 2019, 08:25:07 PM

To be cheated on. actually i recently broke up with my 4years boyfriend because he cheated and that fear Just got bigger

nckristen · May 12, 2019, 02:40:23 AM

My biggest fear is being cheated on. I've already been cheated on by 2 other relationships in the past. It's very damaging. Especially in the relationship I'm currently in, I absolutely love this man with everything in me. Him cheating would destroy me, and I don't think I'd ever find anyone else fit for me.

Lookingfortheone77 · May 14, 2019, 02:45:41 AM

Truthfully, losing myself. Becoming so codependent that he just consumes me and I no longer care so much about myself, but rely on his feelings to feel good about myself. Losing all self control.

learninglove · May 22, 2019, 04:59:40 PM

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lyras66 · May 25, 2019, 12:39:00 AM

My fear would be my significant other mistreating me. Let's say if I were to get with someone and they seemed all nice and loving from the start, but then the person begins to mistreat me after feeling like I could trust and feel safe with that person, then that would be the scary and damaging part for me.

marriedgal · May 27, 2019, 09:59:29 AM

I fear my partner not being loyal to me . Trust is a very big factor and even a small mistake can ruin the relationship forever.

bikergirl83@yahoo.com · May 27, 2019, 11:35:37 PM

I fear not finding a real, loving relationship but also I fear losing it once I have it.

Laurel taylor · May 29, 2019, 03:57:21 AM

Quote from: Tehilah27 on December 20, 2018, 11:13:34 AM

What is your greatest fear in a relationship? My greatest fear is that i will love more than I am loved. I do not want to devote my life to someone who only tolerates me. I want to enjoy my relationship and know it will weather any storm that comes our way. What is your greatest fear in your relationship?

tbh my greatest fear is getting cheated on . In my last relationship, I had to sort after the services of an hacker before I knew my ex was cheating

Alakazam1976 · May 31, 2019, 12:37:45 PM

I also have that fear. I also have a lot of hang ups so I guess I'm really insecure, I fear that my partner will find my insecurities unattractive and it will push them away. A vicious circle really.

Cutie · June 12, 2019, 07:21:09 PM

Not much fears, maybe to be left, or maybe that i will not agree well with his family

Scorpiobabe · June 21, 2019, 12:54:48 PM

I would have to say is my partner cheating on me. Number 1 fear of all. Makes me feel unwanted and not good enough. When I'm spiritually, mentally, physically connected to someone, I want to be all that person yearns for. I want to give all of myself to a person in hopes they do the same, but if i do that and they cheat on me, i would feel empty, used, and abused.

LonelyIN · June 27, 2019, 08:41:11 PM

My biggest fear, the thing of nightmares, is to be cheated on. I'm on my second marriage, and the first wife did that while I was deployed to Iraq. It crushed my soul and lost faith in women. Naturally I instantly divorced, but it caused me to not have any healthy relationship for many years. At least someone off Tinder was never going to cheat on me.

What's so scary is that it's so common, and the thought of someone literally inside your partner is pure horror. The act, the risk of diseases, the betrayal, lost of trust, always doubtful.

It can be an internal struggle of epic proportions. Are they really staying late "at work" evenings?

cendulka · July 02, 2019, 03:02:51 PM

For me the biggest fear that I will lose the person and stay alone forever.

star7786 · August 01, 2019, 10:46:59 AM

Being someone's last option, or someone being with me with the purpose of leaving me once he finds someone he actually likes.

ReneeOfHearts · August 02, 2019, 01:09:18 AM

My greatest fear is not expressing how I feel enough. Sometimes I think it seems like I don't care or that I don't need the same attention that most woman give or need.

AshleyTuong · August 02, 2019, 05:19:57 AM

My most fear is get bored and got problem but no one want to share to fix that together. I fear the silent in relationship also, because Im a talkative one LOL
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