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Author Topic: upcoming trip advise please help

January 21, 2020, 02:59:37 PM
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Hi all,

I'll keep this brief. My gf and I have only been dating for 2 months. Things are going extremely well, and we have established were not seeing anyone and are bf/gf.

She had a trip already planned before we met to go with her friend to a foreign country, and go on a booze cruise (i'm sure there was guys etc.). She didn't really ask me how I felt about it, which is ok at this point in the relationship I feel like--plus I absolutely trust her. She is flirty, but I don't think she would cheat.

That being said, my friends (who are in a relationship Girl and Boy) and then the Girl's best friend (an old fling of mine) want us 4 to go on a trip to Cabo Mexico--before my current gf, us 4 have usually gone on trips before and we wanted to do one last one before my couple friends got married in may. Usually on these trips, me and the extra girl would hook up but obviously I would in NO WAY do that now.

Do I owe it to my GF to ask her if she's okay with it, even though she hasn't really asked me if I was ok in what she does? Should I tell her about the trip and let her know that me and that girl had a fling, but nothing is there anymore? Or do I just not go on the trip and don't say anything?

Please let me know yalls thoughts. I know if it was reverse, I would not want her going...but I don't know if that's the insecure jealous side of me thinking. Thank you!

January 22, 2020, 03:25:03 PM
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loveguru26


Hi, I think you know the answer.

1) You should have a gentle chat about her holiday and tell her how you feel, using kind words and acknowledge your feelings. Boom

2) next, tell her about your holiday (being emotional mature) and ask her was she thinks and take that on board.

Doing the right thing isn't easy.

PS: think outside the box. Can somebody else go on the holiday(s)?

Best wishes - Loveguru26

 

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