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Author Topic: Unsure what to believe anymore

December 31, 2019, 12:33:12 AM
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lexi.lea1389


I've been with my current bf for about 4 months now. Our relationship started off as friends, I helped him get through an emotional break up with his ex gf and eventually we ended up as more than friends. He's always adamant that he wants his ex in his life for his daughters sake (she is friends with his ex's twin daughters) and thinks they can be friends. However, a month ago - I was told by him (only because his daughter told his ex's daughters that we were dating) that she "manipulated" him into still having sex on a few different occasions before we were officially together. I forgave him and had asked that she be removed from the picture in order for us to move on. He agreed, then back tracked a few days later and said that I couldn't tell him who he could and couldn't be friends with. I felt devastated to say the least, because it felt like he once again was choosing her over me. He would tell me that he loved me and was scared to lose me if I found out about them sleeping together so that is why he hid it. Fast forward to a week ago, he informs me that she is sending him inappropriate snaps for the past 2 months and he didn't want to upset me, so he didn't tell me and doesn't think he did anything wrong. She has also been in a new relationship for the past 2 months.
Every time I try to bring up how I feel and how uncomfortable with the situation I am, he gets defensive and angry. Says I'm acting crazy and that this is why he shouldn't date a 30 year old (he's 40) because I'm immature and don't have the life experience he does.
I don't know what to believe or do...I love him and want to believe he loves me too but I'm not sure any more :(

March 07, 2020, 01:00:41 AM
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samsome369


hi gal, I was in your shoes before. and here's an article that really helped me when I was struggling at the bottom.
I hope it could give you some enlightenment and inspiration like it helped me  :)

http://back.ly/Ay4dc

wish you have a great future with your loved one.

 

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