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Author Topic: Step Dad

June 02, 2019, 08:06:37 AM
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KeeyUhhJay


My bf and I have been dating for about a yr now...wait let me give yall a little back story. We dated 8 yrs ago and the break up was not a good one, even though broke up with me for some crazy reason. Anyway here we are 8 yrs later and we couldn't be happier. Its almost like it was fate that we met up again. However during these 8 yrs I have been in a relationship which has given me 3 beautiful children. I love them more than anything. I was very skeptical about him meeting them for a while but he insisted and I have never regretted my decision. He treats my kids as if they were his own, he doesn't have any. I have no issue with him being around them or y watching them. Even when he disciplines them, he very stern and doesn't have to spank them. Not to mention they love him soo much that they started calling him daddy. Now I love the fact that they are attached to him and he's expressed to me that he loves them and when they call him that it melts his heart. Here's my issue, me and my children's father DO NOT get along. He has done soo much damage to me mentally, emotionally and physically for 5 yrs. When he found out that I was dating of course he was pissed and had an issue with him and the kids being around them. However he does NOTHING for them. I dnt ask him for help or money. The state put him on child support and after 3 yrs I finally got a payment, he also doesn't call or try to come see them. Off topic anyway I guess my issue is...should I be respectful enough to tell their father that they have become very attached to my bf and they look at him as a step father or should i just leave it alone. I'm trying to be the responsible adult but every time we try and talk it ends badly. He still constantly tries to put me dwn. When he found out we were dating he told my bf all these lies to try and break up. Should I be respectful and tell him or leave it alone?

 

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