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December 07, 2018, 10:40:08 PM
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Moonchild


Hi there, I have been married for 9 years. And recently came in contact with this friend from high school days... It's been ages we haven't seen each other.   He's persuading me, telling me that he's in love with me... Don't know if he actually cares for me or is just pretending.... But with his actions and words he's trying to say that he actually cares for me... He always calls me with various endearment terms... And now he says he's in love with me and he keeps asking me that he would like to sleep with me... I am not sure what to do.... My marriage life is going through some tough time... I am confused... Not able to judge my feelings.... Please help...
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December 13, 2018, 11:05:45 PM
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Hi there, I have been married for 9 years. And recently came in contact with this friend from high school days... It's been ages we haven't seen each other.   He's persuading me, telling me that he's in love with me... Don't know if he actually cares for me or is just pretending.... But with his actions and words he's trying to say that he actually cares for me... He always calls me with various endearment terms... And now he says he's in love with me and he keeps asking me that he would like to sleep with me... I am not sure what to do.... My marriage life is going through some tough time... I am confused... Not able to judge my feelings.... Please help...

Do you still love your partner? what is currently happening in the marriage for you to both have a tough time?

if you value your marriage I would ignore this person and block them on social media, do not engage with them, they're a bad influence, you're married! it's not worth it, especially if you love your husband. do the right thing.

December 13, 2018, 11:06:13 PM
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missg


Hi there, I have been married for 9 years. And recently came in contact with this friend from high school days... It's been ages we haven't seen each other.   He's persuading me, telling me that he's in love with me... Don't know if he actually cares for me or is just pretending.... But with his actions and words he's trying to say that he actually cares for me... He always calls me with various endearment terms... And now he says he's in love with me and he keeps asking me that he would like to sleep with me... I am not sure what to do.... My marriage life is going through some tough time... I am confused... Not able to judge my feelings.... Please help...

Do you still love your partner? what is currently happening in the marriage for you to both have a tough time?

if you value your marriage I would ignore this person and block them on social media, do not engage with them, they're a bad influence, you're married! it's not worth it, especially if you love your husband. do the right thing.

the grass isn't always greener on the other side @Moonchild , think about your actions carefully.

December 13, 2018, 11:12:47 PM
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Moonchild


Yes, I do care for my partner... But it seems the love isn't there... We have zero sex life.... I understand why I am moving towards this guy... He is giving me the kind of attention I am not getting from my partner... I am confused.... I have no idea, why he's persuading me with so much passion and mind it he's married with a kid....

December 15, 2018, 12:02:41 PM
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menchuuy58


Hi there, I have been married for 9 years. And recently came in contact with this friend from high school days... It's been ages we haven't seen each other.   He's persuading me, telling me that he's in love with me... Don't know if he actually cares for me or is just pretending.... But with his actions and words he's trying to say that he actually cares for me... He always calls me with various endearment terms... And now he says he's in love with me and he keeps asking me that he would like to sleep with me... I am not sure what to do.... My marriage life is going through some tough time... I am confused... Not able to judge my feelings.... Please help...
I think the answer is not to give in to the temptation. You are already married. You should be contented with your marriage. It is not love he is showing to you. It lust of his flesh. If it is love, he could have advised you to fix your rough marriage.

December 29, 2018, 04:32:52 PM
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Marriage life is not a walk in the park. It is natural that you will go through some struggles and I hope the next things I say will enlighten you more with what is happening to you. Marriage is not like eating freshly cooked rice that when it burns your tongue, you are just going to spit it out. It is normal that it almost feels like there's no love anymore? Yes! And what you have to do is think of the ways that can spice up your relationship once more again. You don't have to give up to someone you promised to love forever just because there's a man who's trying to get in the picture. And I hope you can get through this.