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Author Topic: Should I Text Him or Move On?

July 03, 2019, 05:21:42 AM
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toofaced


So I've been talking to this guy for about 6 months. We're both 23 and met on Tinder and really hit it off. We've only seen each other twice in real life because he lives 1 and 1/2 hoursaway because he's in the army and lives on base. I reeeeally like him and have cut off other guys I was casually talking to about 4 months into us talking because I came to the realization that I could see myself being serious with him. The only problem is that for the past month or so we've stopped talking everyday like we used to and the energy of the convos feels different. It's like we're trying to force a conversation. And at this moment we haven't talked for about 3 weeks. He was out of state for an army training thing for 10 days so I didn't wanna bother him/I didn't know how often he was going to be on his phone. So I realize this is partly my fault; I know the phone works both ways. But I can't help feeling like he's not into me anymore because, like I said, he used to text me every day. So I'm just wondering if I should bother texting him and see what's up or just realize that it's over and move on. Thanks so much.

July 04, 2019, 05:51:49 PM
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WBrazilian


Text him. Show interest if you have, be steaight and honest and ask him if he feels the same way.

July 05, 2019, 09:44:43 PM
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softthunder


I would text him. People in the army are quite busy you never know he might be waiting for you to initiate the conversation.

July 09, 2019, 12:58:06 AM
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unsureifwrong


Communication is key! My SO is in the military and their time can be completely consumed by work, and other times they are completely and utterly free (and bored). It fluctuates. Bring it up with him! See where he thinks you stand and try to compromise on a communication pattern.

July 10, 2019, 07:43:23 PM
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felzyfizz


Text him, but if you feel like the same feelings/effort is not being reciprocated, either tell him or just don’t bother in future. Know your worth! X

July 15, 2019, 03:26:18 AM
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Char4manmas


Yes I would text him and let him know exactly how you feel... He may be really busy for training....

July 15, 2019, 01:09:50 PM
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trytobehappyeveryday


Text him. See what he replies! It's true that they are busy at times but if he's interested, he'll always finds ways to let you know

July 15, 2019, 05:37:09 PM
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jessica589


Yes I would text him and let him know exactly how you feel...




« Last Edit: July 15, 2019, 06:20:18 PM by jessica589 »

July 16, 2019, 01:47:48 PM
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lulu


Text him once and see what happens. I he doesnt answer back you move on, but at least yu tried

July 18, 2019, 05:54:25 PM
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SOFLOkingConfused


If I were you I would text him and let him know how you feel.

August 02, 2019, 05:36:53 PM
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fallsdown01


Shoot him a text and see where things go. My SO is military and sometimes loses track of time when he's there.

August 03, 2019, 04:40:16 AM
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chrishen


A 3 time rule is usually good enough

Text one.
48 hours text two
A week later text 3

That's enough to keep the ball in his court, but you should already be forgetting about the person after the 2nd one.

August 03, 2019, 05:24:16 AM
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August 16, 2019, 05:58:13 AM
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puniversity101


Move on. He's not feeling you anymore. Most cats in the military are clearly focused on finding new booty, because they can. He's not worried about you. Sorry, I just want to be straightforward.
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