I am having issues keeping up with my bf's libido. He constantly wants me to want him sexually, he wants me to come on to him, sext him, have sex every single night that I am not on my period. I feel so much pressure to have sex with him but it gets exhausting. I hve been sick the last 3 days and we have not had sex, I am barely better today and he gets mad at me for not being in the mood. I feel like I can't satisfy him sexually and will never be able to be enough for him. I work a mentally exhausting job with adult clients with mental health issues and I am just not always able to perform. I also have gained weight which makes me feel worse about myself, contributing to my lack of libido. He says he finds me sexy no matter what and that he can't help being so attracted to me but it causes a fight every single time we go more than 2 days without sex. Our relationship is otherwise great and healthy and full of compromise and love.  I try to compromise by having sex when I don't really feel like it, but it is never enough. Someone please help me.

Well, you need to talk to him about that and to clarify that he should lighten sex in order for you to be fully ready for that and have more desire for it.