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October 07, 2019, 06:40:01 PM
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I DMed/messaged a hot guy on instagram that works with clothing - a designer. I have before also worked as a designer, so I asked him a question relating to clothing. He said he would not be able to help me and then suddenly changed the topic. He asked which city I lived in and was hesitant to why he has not seen me before if I also worked with clothing. After telling him, I have before - not any more worked with clothing and ended the conversation after a bit more texting to make this whole thing short. He did actually send a follow request on instagram and has been watching my stories ever since. I tried a few days later, to send him a message asking how he was. He ignored that. I decided yesterday to add his snapchat, as he has it on his profile, he accepted but also there did not reply to my snap. He has over 10,000 followers by the way so I know 80% that he does not add back or follow someones instagram for nothing. So people. Does he like me? Is he just playing the game? I mean, if he was fed up, why does he not unfollow me? Have to admit I post a lot on social media so credit for him to even keep up.

October 08, 2019, 07:35:51 PM
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I mean if he has that many followers and not responding to your texts right away, he probably isn't intrested. Especially when people just start to text, it can die quickly if there's boredom so b/ he isn't responding it shows he doesn't really care. And even if he is kind of interested, it isn't worth your time because you should want someone, who wants you equally, even if he is deemed hot or above average.
Also, how do you know he isn't some scammer or a catfish? Really weird and a total red flag to ask you where you live.
In a lot of these online things, a person pretends to sympathize and they have a GREAT relationship online but always manipulate the other side.. Not saying it's going to be you but it's highly possible.

And if he's "hot", he probably has a lot of women after him, which means he most likely is going to pick the most "attractive" girl= superficial and not real.
Also, if he even "chose" you, why would you want to base a relationship off looks, that are possibly photoshopped, etc. It's a bit fake and unviable (unless you just want a physical relationship) but still.. not fulfilling.

Sooo he isn't worth it, and you deserve someone who is actually invested in you. Not some "hot" , possibly a catfish dude who doesn't have his full attention to you. If he really liked you, he wouldn't give you mixed signals.