Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about a month and is expressing he wants to make things a bit more physical. We have cuddled and he wants me to kiss him and hold his hand all the time. (so nothing innapproiate)
I mean it's not bad but I also have a major fear of intimacy so I get unconfrtomble easily and he is incredibly understandable and many times he tells me he refrains from his instincts.
I like him a lot and think about doing those things to him and want to but it's just my anxiety you know? He is understanding of the things that I like and refrains sometimes for me so if he is asking for something small and I secretly want to do it then that's fine, right?