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November 17, 2019, 03:10:35 AM
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laveritamifamaleloso


Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about a month and is expressing he wants to make things a bit more physical. We have cuddled and he wants me to kiss him and hold his hand all the time. (so nothing innapproiate)
I mean it's not bad but I also have a major fear of intimacy so I get unconfrtomble easily and he is incredibly understandable and many times he tells me he refrains from his instincts.
I like him a lot and think about doing those things to him and want to but it's just my anxiety you know? He is understanding of the things that I like and refrains sometimes for me so if he is asking for something small and I secretly want to do it then that's fine, right?

February 16, 2020, 01:49:12 PM
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Swingsandroundabouts


This is something you will probably need to work on if you want a successful relationship. Try suggesting an approach to intimacy that you will feel comfortable with.
Start with a few minutes of hand- holding etc regularly and build on it until you feel comfortable, then move on to the next level. Take a slow approach and be honest with your partner about how you feel, communication is key.

 

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