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Author Topic: No guys might want to date me?

December 10, 2019, 10:24:03 PM
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TheGoodGirl


Because I'm considered to be even more unattractive then most other women

And it frustrates me.



Please tell me the truth and no lies.

December 11, 2019, 05:29:03 AM
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Animus



There is a difference between:

"Some people like me." and "Everyone likes me."

You can never, NEVER, ever achieve the second.

You need to focus on the first. Who?

Well, you are NOT going to like me answer, but you said NO LIES, right?

The first person that you need to convince that you are likeable is...

YOU!

YOU should get to a level where YOU find yourself likeable and attractive. Not 'HOT.' Not a 'Head-turner.' Not even a 'piece-of-[ahem].'

Likeable and reasonably attractive, which I am SURE you are, unless you have eight eyes, five third of nose and green tentacles.

Repeat after me:

"I am likeable." "I am worthy of my own attention." "I am worthy of being loved." "I just need to work on improving my self-esteem and social skills."

OK?

I hope you'll remember this.

December 11, 2019, 07:56:08 AM
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TheGoodGirl



There is a difference between:

"Some people like me." and "Everyone likes me."

You can never, NEVER, ever achieve the second.

You need to focus on the first. Who?

Well, you are NOT going to like me answer, but you said NO LIES, right?

The first person that you need to convince that you are likeable is...

YOU!

YOU should get to a level where YOU find yourself likeable and attractive. Not 'HOT.' Not a 'Head-turner.' Not even a 'piece-of-[ahem].'

Likeable and reasonably attractive, which I am SURE you are, unless you have eight eyes, five third of nose and green tentacles.

Repeat after me:

"I am likeable." "I am worthy of my own attention." "I am worthy of being loved." "I just need to work on improving my self-esteem and social skills."

OK?

I hope you'll remember this.

This is not about liking me it's about me being frustrated that no guys might to date me.

December 12, 2019, 06:26:42 AM
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Captain Black


That is what Animus is saying

You have to learn to love and appreciate yourself first and foremost .

Until that time you cant really expect anyone else to do that .

January 02, 2020, 05:19:57 AM
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Tony


Agree with Animus and Captain Black.

From a blokes perspective, what people find attractive is confidence in yourself. But to do that requires you also to love yourself and know who you are. When you enjoy yourself, you feel fun, you will be attractive to others. But if you still need this, go get your hair done, and get a stylist to help refresh your wardrobe to feel good about yourself - but don't forget this will only be temporary and things must come from within.

When you place yourself in situations where you do the things you love (say for instance you like dancing) then you will find people with similar interests which can help start a conversation. Don't be afraid to approach people, or afraid of rejection. Its purely a numbers game, and once you get over this, you will find chemistry with someone who will appreciate you for you. But you have to be prepared to put yourself out there and sort the wheat from the chaff.

January 03, 2020, 04:14:26 PM
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Poeksie


Confidence is the key.
If you have little confidence in yourself then men will not find you attractive. Keep your up and walk like like you own the world.
Most men are attracted to confidence. Then there's body language. It gives a message. If you feel unattractive your body language will send that very same message out there. But when vice versa ... then the magic will happen. Hopes this helps 😊

January 06, 2020, 02:01:51 PM
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SimonEA


have you ever heard of love attraction spell? maybe you can try it. i think some times what matters is for you to be happy. having something you want in life. try this guy at www.thespellsoflove.com he can help you

January 06, 2020, 04:37:05 PM
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TheGoodGirl


have you ever heard of love attraction spell? maybe you can try it. i think some times what matters is for you to be happy. having something you want in life. try this guy at www.thespellsoflove.com he can help you


I want guys to date me without a love spell.

January 26, 2020, 07:29:31 AM
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ccsfunhouse


Beauty starts from within. You are beautiful and as long as you know that and love yourself. Share your awesomeness and your beauty will be noticed, irresistible and unforgettable. This good read helped me rejuvenate my love for myself and eventually the love for my new fiance' http://tinyurl.com/her12sweetwords Hope it helps  :)

 

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