He's 10 years older, used to be my boss but got transferred, has 2 children with his common law wife and acts as a father to her child from a previous relationship. Last summer we started flirting and one day he followed me to a local sports shop. We started talking and it's been that way for a year. He hasn't given me details about his relationship and I haven't asked, but all he has said is that it's bad. So for the whole year and a half now I'll see him when he's done work and we just kiss in his or my car. He's made promises of us being together and so I've been waiting. Lately I don't feel like a priority at all to him and it's depressing me. I realize he has children but then he makes time for other activities such as volunteering at two different places. We've never even gone out for a coffee or spent more than 2 hours together outside of work. This actually hurts so much and it's depressing me to the point that I'm crying all the time. Should I trust him or what should I do? He said we'd be together by Christmas, but I see nothing new happening. Sometimes I just have a breakdown and feel like texting him that I'm done because I can't take it anymore, but we've talked so many times about us being together that I feel I should hang in there.

Yes, easy as it is to say from here, you need to move on. Of course he ha his kids to worry about, but he's not putting you high enough up his list. I'm sorry.