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October 27, 2019, 10:30:53 PM
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katherine_30


He's 10 years older, used to be my boss but got transferred, has 2 children with his common law wife and acts as a father to her child from a previous relationship. Last summer we started flirting and one day he followed me to a local sports shop. We started talking and it's been that way for a year. He hasn't given me details about his relationship and I haven't asked, but all he has said is that it's bad. So for the whole year and a half now I'll see him when he's done work and we just kiss in his or my car. He's made promises of us being together and so I've been waiting. Lately I don't feel like a priority at all to him and it's depressing me. I realize he has children but then he makes time for other activities such as volunteering at two different places. We've never even gone out for a coffee or spent more than 2 hours together outside of work. This actually hurts so much and it's depressing me to the point that I'm crying all the time. Should I trust him or what should I do? He said we'd be together by Christmas, but I see nothing new happening. Sometimes I just have a breakdown and feel like texting him that I'm done because I can't take it anymore, but we've talked so many times about us being together that I feel I should hang in there.

October 28, 2019, 03:06:27 AM
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Atoya


I am so sorry to hear what you have been going through. It is easy for me to say to you that you need to let go because it is the logical thing to do. However, just as falling for this man was a process, so is letting go. But honestly, do I believe he will be with you by Christmas? No. So I must ask you, what are your life goals as it relates to love?

October 28, 2019, 06:48:33 PM
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ConfusedInLove


Yes, easy as it is to say from here, you need to move on. Of course he ha his kids to worry about, but he's not putting you high enough up his list. I'm sorry.  :(

November 04, 2019, 08:02:57 AM
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Captain Black


I agree with the others. Its time to move on darling . You have your own life to think about which I think is currently on hold at the moment with this "relationship" which isn't . You deserve better .

 

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