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Author Topic: My whole being rejects a person or thought

February 16, 2020, 12:59:58 PM
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idkwhatswrongwithme


Hello,

I'm 19 years old and when I was around 16 I made friends with a guy over a game, from which we got friendly and are extremely good friends today. He is from another country and 5 years older than me, and a super sweet guy. We've had the talk about being in a relationship and I also think he's extremely kind to me and sweet and definitely boyfriend material, but even the first time I thought about us dating I got stressed and had a weird feeling, so I rejected him.
We still kept contact and are good friends and after like 2 years (now) I thought about it again and mentioned to him that i might be okay with it now.
As we haven't met in real life yet, we arranged a meeting, which was this weekend. After meeting him I know he still is a super sweet guy, even tho his looks are really not my type.

At the end of today when he flew back he asked me out again, and first I said yes but after he went to his flight my whole being, heart and instincts denied and refused that thought again so i took my answer back and said I need to think about it.

 I am really stressed out and my body feels very uncomfortable. I also had this feeling back then so I don't know if my instincs tell me I should not date him and just keep on being friends. Am I overthinking things?

Maybe it's worth mentioning that I do have social anxiety and slight depression.

March 07, 2020, 12:56:56 AM
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samsome369


hi gal, I was in your shoes before. and here's an article that really helped me when I was struggling at the bottom.
I hope it could give you some enlightenment and inspiration like it helped me  :)

http://back.ly/Ay4dc

wish you have a great future with your loved one.

 

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