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August 20, 2018, 01:39:47 AM
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msfaith28


My boyfriend is such a moron! I can’t believe we are still together. I don’t think I can continue to tolerate him any longer. He’s like such a sleazeball! We went to a bar that we usually hang out at, with our friends and I like totally caught him in the act! He was flirting with a group of Lima women and the girls were being really touchy with him too! It like totally made me so upset, like you wouldn’t believe! Maybe I should just end things with him, what do you guys think? He keeps saying sorry and telling me, “Baby, I promise I’ll change” every time I say I want to break up, but he never does and I’m sick of his lies! Is it time to finally let go?

August 20, 2018, 11:17:16 AM
Reply #1

ajahcuizon


If you already given him a second chance, I think it is time for you to think if you still look at the future with him or else you might end up miserable while he enjoys playing with other girls. Find your worth girl, you do not deserve somebody you would cheat on you. Also think about it, if he really loves you, he doesn't have to do fling with other woman because he should be satisfied with you. Love yourself, find your worth. No woman deserve to be treated as a toy instead woman should be treated as a queen.

August 20, 2018, 04:47:31 PM
Reply #2

Steve5


If you already given him a second chance, I think it is time for you to think if you still look at the future with him or else you might end up miserable while he enjoys playing with other girls. Find your worth girl, you do not deserve somebody you would cheat on you. Also think about it, if he really loves you, he doesn't have to do fling with other woman because he should be satisfied with you. Love yourself, find your worth. No woman deserve to be treated as a toy instead woman should be treated as a queen.

I agree. Women should always be respected. It's important for him to know how much you're worth. And it clearly shows that he doesn't value that much. So you can definitely consider moving on from him because you don't all the drama and pain. Life is beautiful so go find something meaningful in life.  :D

August 21, 2018, 05:53:27 AM
Reply #3

Donyababoy


Ask yourself, do I still love this person despite all the things he has done? Am I willing to put my heart in line every time I’m with him knowing it’ll cost me another episode of heartbreak if he repeats his mistakes again after giving him countless chances already? If your answer to this is ‘Yes’, first let me tell you that I salute your bravery, second, If you can continue tolerating his antics despite knowing the pain he can give you, then go on, continue the relationship. If in all of this your heart shouts ‘No’ that you have had enough and if you can’t take it anymore or if, in simpler terms the love has finally faded, I can only wish you to find greater joy in loving yourself first, and by this action, in loving yourself above all else, it’s wiser to finally let him go.

August 21, 2018, 09:38:42 AM
Reply #4

Corzhens


Are you objective with your recollection of the incident? When you are jealous or mad there is a tendency to be prejudiced that a small mistake becomes big in your eyes. If that is the first incident then I guess your boyfriend deserves a pardon but he will be under probationary. And if he repeats the offense then that's the time you can ax him. But for now, calm yourself and think of the good times that you spent with him. Or perhaps if you are really mad about it then ask for a cooling off period but not a break up.

August 21, 2018, 03:31:45 PM
Reply #5

Lissiel


You said it to yourself that your bf is a moron and an idiot. Do you want to date someone who is an idiot? Even if you will continue yoir relationship with him, your trust is already broken and it will ne harder for you to be happy with him. He will just do it again and again, he won't change for you, because if he really don't want you to be hurt, he would have change for himself.

August 23, 2018, 10:12:37 AM
Reply #6

alymae


This is not the first time he did this right? If he is a repeat offender let him go. You don't deserve a guy who doesn't value you and recognize that you are diamond. You are not made to be hurt, you are made to be love. Without trust what's the point in the relationship? Let's say you still love him, this is normal. You cannot just forget about someone you love before in a flash. But you have to decide if you want to continue with a man who clearly doesn't respect and love you. If he can cheat again and again that only means one thing. His feelings for you are not true.  Learn toove yourself, there might be someone out there who is meant for you.

August 23, 2018, 11:16:44 AM
Reply #7

Crunky8


If there is no better understanding why will you stay with him. Disclose this issue with your family members. If the person come back then okey otherwise leave him forever.

August 25, 2018, 02:48:24 PM
Reply #8

huggypillows


Yes, If you are not happy with him anymore better to let it go. If you also try everything that you can do to make your relationships work and he doesnt care anymore. Better to stop care too. and Both man and woman should always work together not just one. that is how to take care of relationship.

August 25, 2018, 03:21:55 PM
Reply #9

jennyfermanuel


Are you serious? You said "maybe" you should end it? If you really caught him in the act and it didn't just happen once, well yes end it!
But we're not sure if you will listen to our advises actually. But on my opinion, girl, you admit that your boyfriend is a moron right? Well I can sense he is. If he really loves you girl, he wouldn't do something that will make you upset and jealous. Well some small issues like liking on other girls photo's on social media show's that everyone's commit mistakes. But this one is too much. And if you forgive him again? There is a bigger chance he will do it again, it's because he knows you will forgive him anyway. If you think and feel that this relationship is a toxic one, end it.

August 25, 2018, 03:57:05 PM
Reply #10

Steve5


Are you objective with your recollection of the incident? When you are jealous or mad there is a tendency to be prejudiced that a small mistake becomes big in your eyes. If that is the first incident then I guess your boyfriend deserves a pardon but he will be under probationary. And if he repeats the offense then that's the time you can ax him. But for now, calm yourself and think of the good times that you spent with him. Or perhaps if you are really mad about it then ask for a cooling off period but not a break up.

This can sometimes be the case. But maybe it's also a warning sign for person. The person you love should be more understanding of your feelings. They should care about how they make you feel and avoid things that hurt you emotionally.  :)

 

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