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February 07, 2020, 02:58:02 PM
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KelliM


Okay, this may be long but I guess I need someone to tell me that I am a fool.  I met my 2nd husband 3 years ago on Facebook, he was a mutual friend.  We fell in love and married last April.  We were living in a town home along with my daughter (from another marriage).  Everything was great and then he said that he felt we were all on top of each other and that we should look for a house.  In the meantime, my daughter decided to see me and her father equally, so she stays 2 weeks with me and 2 weeks with her father during the month.  So we bought a house and the basement was pretty nice so I said to my husband, all we need is a shower down here and there you go, a place for you to decompress away from me and my daughter.  I spent the money to get the man cave up to par and it was going good until he told me a few months ago that he can't handle me and my daughters' relationship and her drama and wants me all to himself.  I was like "what?"  My daughter goes to school and works two jobs, she is barely around when I have her for my 2 weeks, so me and the hubby have plenty of time alone.  So we ended up fighting alot over that and so his best friend is getting him set up in one of his properties.  this will be a place for him to go on the 2 weeks that I have my daughter.  Now my kid is upset and won't speak to him and I'm upset at spending the money to get his man cave up and going only for him to leave and go into an apartment.  So now, I'm wanting to sell my house and go back to renting a town home if this is the case.  I mean, is this normal?  He says he loves me but apparently not enough.  Isn't this ridiculous? I may have to add that he is bipolar, so this could have something to do with it.  But I'm leaning towards a permanent separation.  I want a husband full time, not part time. :-\

March 07, 2020, 12:57:57 AM
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samsome369


hi gal, I was in your shoes before. and here's an article that really helped me when I was struggling at the bottom.
I hope it could give you some enlightenment and inspiration like it helped me  :)

http://back.ly/Ay4dc

wish you have a great future with your loved one.

 

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