I had my first boyfriend when I was nearing to graduate in college. Consider that I am not that pretty and quite introvert, having a boyfriend escaped my mind maybe because I was the youngest in a brood of 12 and my 8 brothers were over protective. Okay, there were so many reasons for boys to avoid me. But during my last year in college, I had some friends who are outgoing. They were fond of parties and going to resorts. And although my parents were strict that I didn't have a chance to join my friends to have fun, I had developed an outgoing attitude or maybe let's say I had become sociable. And with that new attitude came the opportunity to meet new friends, male and female. Perhaps you can try to connect to people who are sociable and the personality may rub off on you. I don't believe that physical appearance is a major reason for not having an admirer. Cultivate the beauty inside of you, have self confidence.