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Author Topic: It frustrates me that I have to approach guys and ask them out?

August 05, 2018, 04:55:08 AM
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TheGoodGirl


Because they won't approach me or ask me out.

August 05, 2018, 04:24:24 PM
Reply #1

powpow13


Sorry to hear that. Can you think of any reasons why this is the case?

August 06, 2018, 09:17:44 AM
Reply #2

TheGoodGirl


Sorry to hear that. Can you think of any reasons why this is the case?

It frustrates me because it might be because of my looks.

August 07, 2018, 12:24:22 PM
Reply #3

QueenFarLou


Being friendly by asking a guy out is okay but it could also be tricky coz they might mistake you for being aggressive. Be careful because it could send the wrong signal and could attract the wrong guys. Best of luck!

August 23, 2018, 04:12:15 PM
Reply #4

RoseKaizer


It's okay, if asking a guy to go out is you want to be friendly, but if other things its.not.good to see that a girl asking a guy to go out.

August 24, 2018, 09:16:13 AM
Reply #5

Corzhens


Oh, this is a sad topic to discuss because I had that feeling before that I kept asking myself why I did not have suitors while my friends in high school have boyfriends already. When I entered college, things changed maybe because I circulated more and I had friends who supported me which means they are looking for prospects for me. You can also do that by going out with your friends and telling them of what you want. Circulating is not easy when you are alone and the best is to have the company of your close friends. You can treat them to snacks. That is better instead of asking out a man for a date.

August 24, 2018, 10:53:29 AM
Reply #6

jaymish


I agree. I'm not really for the idea of asking a man out. I think that men are complicated and they pursue people that they want. When you pursue a man he will agree but the relationship will probably not last. Men are hunters by nature. It is better for them to pursue you. I'm speaking from experience, if you pursue a man it probably won't end well. I agree that you should try to get yourself out there and before you know it a man will be pursuing you.

August 24, 2018, 12:38:56 PM
Reply #7

alymae


I can totally relate with you. I've experienced this phase in my life that I felt undesirable and ugly. I believe we all have our own insecurities and we fight our own battles. It takes courage to approach a guy to ask him out. We are in a free world where we are all equals. Women that knows what they want are beautiful women. It is okay to ask them out but be careful of how you do it. Ask them out without seeming to be an aggressive person. Maintain your poise and elegance even if he says no. Go for it! But still always remember that no matter what, no one ask you out or they line up, you will always be beautiful and deserving of all love. Don't go look for them, they are the bees and you are the flower.

 

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