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Author Topic: It frustrates me that I've never had sex and that I'm still a virgin?

September 15, 2019, 05:22:59 PM
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TheGoodGirl


I'm even more unattractive then most other girls.

I'm almost 30.

Please tell me the truth and no lies.

September 16, 2019, 02:13:17 PM
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LoveTheRanger


I can understand why you would be frustrated. I waited until I was 22 to have sex, but not on purpose. I am 32 now, and have not had a lot of sex in my life. My long time relationship lacked a lot of that for many years (loooong story). I am not in a long distance relationship and the sex is in frequent.

I have been overweight for most of my life, and that has affected my self esteem, which is part of the reason why I didn't have sex often.

What I have done is worked on myself. I have worked on becoming healthy and strong and doing things that I like, for me. I focus on myself and everything gets better naturally.

What I mean is this. Don't focus on this as a failure. Realize that you are waiting for the right person who will love you and appreciate you. Maybe take some time to spruce yourself up to feel pretty! If you feel pretty and sexy, it shows and other people will see that. It's all about confidence and self image.

February 04, 2020, 08:34:21 PM
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No Escape


The frustration is real, I know it all too well.

March 07, 2020, 12:58:33 AM
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samsome369


hi gal, I was in your shoes before. and here's an article that really helped me when I was struggling at the bottom.
I hope it could give you some enlightenment and inspiration like it helped me  :)

http://back.ly/Ay4dc

wish you have a great future with your loved one.

March 31, 2020, 06:59:52 PM
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DreamGuyxo


At my age of 26, I feel like a lot of things that I have done previous really made a impact on how I feel for today...

I guess it’s frustrating for you to be a virgin in the moment but that is cause we all have different feelings...

One thing that you can do is figure out who you are deep down and to question yourself what would you really want...

There’s lots of people who are frustrated and then there’s another half of the people who admire and take gratitude for their virginity...

There’s absolutely nothing wrong at all about being a virgin but better yet you pay attention to what makes you happy of the outcome in your situation...

Ps I think being a virgin is cool - I’m not experienced as much but would like exclusivity above all that I have

April 01, 2020, 04:14:42 AM
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LilyPouille


It's not a problem until you make it a problem. Everybody has its own story about love and sex.
I think the problem is mostly self-image and self-love.
Live. Just live.

April 01, 2020, 11:07:52 PM
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Anna_bananas


Don't worry about societys stigmas on sex. This is a decision you make based on your morals, beliefs, body, and what you're comfortable with. Don't let anything else pressure you or make you feel bad

 

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