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Author Topic: is he just being friendly?

December 05, 2019, 12:08:06 PM
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so this guy has been really nice to me over the past 2 months since we've met and he always makes me feel like someone special. he has bought me lunch, texted me almost every day (he texts first), looks at me when he laughs, teases me, makes me laugh a bunch, pats my head and lots more. i know it doesnt sound like much but i feel like its a big deal. but i know that he has another girl he probably does the same things and i think that he really has feelings for her. shes prettier than me and i think she suits his character more. but i just dont know what to do! he still texts me often and hangs out with me. how should i respond to this?

December 06, 2019, 04:29:43 AM
Reply #1

Captain Black

Being blunt I would leave him firmly alone . Unless of course you are into polyamorous relationships . If he is seeing another woman at the same time he showing no signs of loyalty . Could you really trust a person like this ? I just cant see any foundations for you to build a relationship with this guy.

I would just keep him in in your friendzone . If he wants to take you out for lunch then fair enough but don't give him any afters once you have finished your meal .

In the meantime start looking for someone who will give you that loyalty and attention  that you deserve.

December 06, 2019, 05:37:49 AM
Reply #2


Yeah I agree being direct will get to the bottom. Life is short to be wasting time with someone who plays games.

February 19, 2020, 07:20:30 PM
Reply #3


Either ask what his feeling are towards you or compete with the other lady by being more "fun" than what she is.

February 20, 2020, 11:50:38 PM
Reply #4


Men are never just being friendly. A good looking guy which it sounds like he is has options A B’s and C’s. These men are called players and women foolishly think they can tie them down.

February 24, 2020, 04:36:20 PM
Reply #5


I have always found men never are just friendly like overly always seem to be more interested just ask you have one life

February 27, 2020, 12:43:54 AM
Reply #6


The only way to really know is by asking him how he truly feels about you. Before asking, you could observe him to see how he acts around other girls, including his girl. Maybe he has a flirty personality, but that's just another thought that I had in mind. 


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