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Author Topic: Is he interested in me or using me to get over his ex

December 06, 2019, 05:23:47 PM
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There is a guy with who I share a good friendship with. We haven't known eachother for very long, but got along very well immediately.  He told me that things weren't going well with his girlfriend. I was in the same boat, I broke up after a 9 year relationship. After he said that they broke up he has become more touchy with me and he said that spending time with me comforted him. We recently went on a 5 day trip (he was our guide) and shared a meaningfull conversation. He grabbed my hand when I was talking about my own struggles. We spent the nights sleeping next to eachother in the hut and he actually hugged and kissed me. One thing led to another and we ended up sleeping together after the trip. I genuinely like this guy very much but I am unsure why he is doing this. The break up has had a big impact on him but the way he is caring for me makes me very confused. I've had more time to get over my ex and I am ready to start a new relationship with someone else. The way he shows his care for me really touches me. A strong emotional bond is something I really missed during my previous relationship. I know that he is not ready to start a new relationship at the moment. I am okay with that since I will be living in another country for 4 months (we are both from another country). However I am really temped to go back, partly to see if we can work it out together and to develop my career there. I have a hard time understanding what he wants out of this. He told me that he would like it if I came back and he would like to get to know me better.
« Last Edit: December 06, 2019, 10:30:24 PM by Nathalie »

December 06, 2019, 06:10:37 PM
Reply #1

Captain Black

As he has just broken up with his girlfriend then he will ,Iikely to be somewhat confused. His emotions will be probably all over the place . For me it's far too early for him to get emotionally involved with another girl. 

If I was you tred carefully and don't do any too rash. He will be on the rebound . Take things slowly .

March 07, 2020, 01:08:41 AM
Reply #2


hi gal, I was in your shoes before. and here's an article that really helped me when I was struggling at the bottom.
I hope it could give you some enlightenment and inspiration like it helped me  :)


wish you have a great future with your loved one.


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