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Author Topic: Iritated with bf

October 30, 2019, 06:38:25 PM
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Sunshine4


My boyfriend has a daughter who lives with us. He constantly is spending a lot of money on her for weaves, nails, clothes, shoes, etc on on a weekly basis. While he has paid for trips, nails, shoes, hairdos, clothes, etc for me I get irritated when I want him to help me with other things like fixing a dent on my car or fixing my car door actuator. He says it's cosmetic and that's not important. However, another daughter had a dent on her car and he fixed it. The problem isn't that he does for his daughters, he should, but instead how it feels like he doesn't have me for things I need. I have tried to look at it as I have my own money and can fix it but he is my man and I feel he should take care of it.

November 04, 2019, 07:58:16 AM
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Captain Black


He will more than likely put his daughter first. It is a unique bonding that tends to exist between father and daughter . Its something you may have to put up with until she is fully independent .

November 05, 2019, 06:42:44 AM
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zoegram


His daughters come first. But have you talked to him about it? Otherwise, do.

November 09, 2019, 05:05:38 PM
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nerdygirl87


I agree. I am in my first relationship with someone with a kid. Its a new dynamic to adjust to because end of the day his daughter will always come first. But if he loves you he will also make you a priority, just speak openly to him about it coming from a loving place that you know his daughter is always number one as it should be, but that you also want to feel like the things you need have to be important to him too.