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Author Topic: If you really love him you will give him the space that he wants.

August 23, 2018, 10:42:53 PM
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huggypillows


I was sad when he told that he want to be alone. simples word but those words are the most hard thing to understand. for me if you love someone you will not let him / her be alone, never make him / her alone. that is part of relationship . so why do we have to be alone . I never understand.

August 23, 2018, 11:01:01 PM
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jaymish


I agree with this. There is a popular phrase that is always quoted. If you love something, let it go if it comes back it was meant to be. I agree with this. In a relationship this is the absolute hardest thing to do. It is easier said then done. If someone wants his space you can't force yourself on them. I learned this the absolute hard way but this is so true. Let  him go ladies. He is not worth your self-esteem.

August 26, 2018, 11:42:17 AM
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Corzhens


I understand this kind of situation when your lover asks for a little space. It usually occurs when someone has a big problem that he doesn't want his lover to be involved. That happened to me once when my boyfriend had a problem with his work. Before he resigned, he told me to go into a sort of cooling period that we wouldn't see or talk to each other for a time. Fortunately I was an understanding woman and I also investigated. When I got to know of the problem, I gave him my full support and the cooling period became moot and academic.

August 26, 2018, 02:15:59 PM
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RoseKaizer


I ask it to myself that also, why people you love the most is saying that let them be alone. I dont understand it, because all i know is if you love each other, you dont let that happen. But sometimes set someone free is the right thing to do to make that persons happy.

 

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