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Author Topic: I stopped loving someone who doesn't care?

September 12, 2018, 08:59:39 AM
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soonbride26


I had a long-time boyfriend. We were almost six years and was planning to get married. We already started building our house. But everything turned into ashes and I never regretted that it happened. I always dream to walk in the aisle while he is waiting for me at the altar. However, during our almost six years ride, I realized that it was only I who tried so hard to let our relationship work. I was the one who did efforts and sacrifices. I forgave him a thousand times for hanging out in nightclubs with different women from USA. I always caught him still exchanging messages with his ex-girlfriend. He lies to me countless times. I had become so blinded by what I thought was love. The moment I woke up from that nightmare, I knew I have done enough and I should stop. I am so glad I did. I know I have done something great for myself and I am proud of myself.


September 12, 2018, 04:32:07 PM
Reply #1

goodevening


I had a long-time boyfriend. We were almost six years and was planning to get married. We already started building our house. But everything turned into ashes and I never regretted that it happened. I always dream to walk in the aisle while he is waiting for me at the altar. However, during our almost six years ride, I realized that it was only I who tried so hard to let our relationship work. I was the one who did efforts and sacrifices. I forgave him a thousand times for hanging out in nightclubs with different women from USA. I always caught him still exchanging messages with his ex-girlfriend. He lies to me countless times. I had become so blinded by what I thought was love. The moment I woke up from that nightmare, I knew I have done enough and I should stop. I am so glad I did. I know I have done something great for myself and I am proud of myself.

I am so sorry to hear that you're going through this, that doesn't sound nice, at all.

When did you split up with him?

Have you tried moving on? If not, you need to. Hang out with your friends, do things that you like, surround yourself with positive people ... keep yourself busy!

Everything happens for a reason and this relationship ended for a reason, in time you will figure out where (maybe you will meet the man of your dreams and then realise that your relationship with your ex wasn't perfect after all!).

Always here if you need a chat.

September 13, 2018, 10:25:35 AM
Reply #2

soonbride26


It's alright. We broke up few months ago and I'm fine. I shouldn't let negativity to drown me. That relationship was already toxic since it started so, it's okay. Thank you so much for such great words.

September 15, 2018, 06:27:07 PM
Reply #3

goodevening


It's alright. We broke up few months ago and I'm fine. I shouldn't let negativity to drown me. That relationship was already toxic since it started so, it's okay. Thank you so much for such great words.

No problem @soonbride26 , we're always here if you need someone to chat too.

October 24, 2018, 06:22:51 AM
Reply #4

Tinashurt


Sorry to hear this o am gping through same thing

October 24, 2018, 10:15:08 AM
Reply #5

missg


Sorry to hear this o am gping through same thing

what are you currently going through @Tinashurt - welcome by the way and sorry to hear this x


October 28, 2018, 01:43:17 PM
Reply #6

nx2172


I am so sorry you had to go through this. You sound like such a strong person. You definitely deserve way better, I wish you the best of luck.

November 20, 2018, 04:54:29 PM
Reply #7

sandythecat


I had a long-time boyfriend. We were almost six years and was planning to get married. We already started building our house. But everything turned into ashes and I never regretted that it happened. I always dream to walk in the aisle while he is waiting for me at the altar. However, during our almost six years ride, I realized that it was only I who tried so hard to let our relationship work. I was the one who did efforts and sacrifices. I forgave him a thousand times for hanging out in nightclubs with different women from USA. I always caught him still exchanging messages with his ex-girlfriend. He lies to me countless times. I had become so blinded by what I thought was love. The moment I woke up from that nightmare, I knew I have done enough and I should stop. I am so glad I did. I know I have done something great for myself and I am proud of myself.

Hey there. I'm sorry you have to go through that. I hope you know that you deserve somebody who treats you right and is willing to do equally the same efforts to work the relationship out.
You have made a great decision for yourself and know that this decision will affect your life. Being married with a cheater is not going to be pleasant. In order to move on quickly I suggest you to surround yourself with positive people, do things you love especially the ones you can't or won't do when you're with him. The right person will never have the chance to be in your life when he's in it. So for the time being enjoy your time, love yourself, and use the efforts and works you used to do for him to set you on top. Hope this helps :)

 

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