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Author Topic: I don't know if I should pursue this

September 16, 2019, 12:30:52 PM
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ThalyCat


Hi. I've been in an on and off "relationship" with a guy for almost 2 years. We had a really bumpy first 10 months. I lost my dad and most of my family pets around the same time I first met him. I also had moved in with him in the first month. I have a splash of aspys so I tend to make things go pretty fast. The problem I'm facing is he's always hesitant about committing to me. I'll spend a weekend having amazing intimacy and we get along great, but sometimes we get so involved with how we're feeling in the moment with each other that we start neglecting other things in our lives. He gives me a lot of mixed messages. I'm constantly stressed out about this, because he also constantly talks about me "being able to keep up with". It puts a lot of pressure on me and makes me feel like no matter what I do, I can never actually win his love. And this comes of as narcissistic, but I don't think he has that. I just don't want to feel so stressed out about this anymore. What should I do? I'm also incredibly lonely without him, and I share a lot of fond feelings with him that I would miss.