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July 18, 2019, 10:03:16 PM
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Windyblue


So I've been talking to two guys for these last few weeks. We met on a dating app and everything was fine. I started talking to A more frequently when I added him on WhatsApp and we were flirty all the time. I thought that was all but he is really sweet and shy sometimes. We suddenly stopped talking and at that time I added B on WhatsApp and we started talking more and more. We decided then to be friends with benefits. The problem is that A has appeared again and I think I might like him a bit even if we have almost no chance to meet in real life (we live in different countries). But B is kind and we have a cool relationship. I'm not sure if I should tell them that this is a casual and not exclusive relationship or what to do.  :'(

September 16, 2019, 06:47:36 AM
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Cyrano


On the upside - you've got two guys who find you attractive and want to flirt... that's a plus!  :)

I guess you need to work out what you want first. Do you want to be exclusive with either of them - or would you like to be able to flirt?

Once you figure that out, it's always good to be honest. Maybe you could initiate a conversation with each of them about what they want out of a relationship and bring up the question of being exclusive (or not) then.

September 17, 2019, 05:16:28 PM
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trilly_@


First you have to ask your self what you want and need in this moment of your life, than who between A and B is best option for you. For now don't be really clear about the situation with both of them and give your self some time to reflect.
Hope I helped you :)

 

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