Hello, little bit confused about how I'm feeling at the moment.
Basically, I dated a guy for a few weeks, it didn't work out as he said he didn't see a future (I didn't agree, but respected his decision) and we became really close friends, and still are. A few months after we stopped dating things started to get a bit weird, he started flirting over text, a lot of sexual tension when we were alone together. So a couple of weeks ago we decided to sleep together - as long as it meant absolutely nothing. The first time, it did mean nothing as I convinced myself he was right, we wouldn't work and I'm not ready for a relationship yet. But the second time, the sex didn't mean anything but I guess it's afterwards - the cuddling, the kissing in the morning, eating breakfast together - it made me think, 'hey, if we got into a relationship, what would change?' I suppose in the back of my mind, I'm still thinking we would work together and should've given it a chance. But I'm confused about how I feel about him - I don't know if I have feelings for him, so I guess what I'm asking is how do you know? Are there any signs?