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September 03, 2019, 12:18:07 PM
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Hi everyone, I got a boyfriend called Jack, we go to the same group together called oflac  and the group is for special needs people and I don’t want to lose him as we both love each other but he has been reported to the police because he has been violent to his ex girlfriends and he has now made one of the girls who I get on with leave the group

My mum doesn’t want me to be with jack as he can be violent also the boss said that he is a bad person! Like I said earlier I don’t want to lose Jack also she doesn’t want me talking to him outside group the only time I’m allowed to talk to him is inside group

He’s ignoring what everyone says as he doesn’t care because he just wants to be happy with me

Please help me as I’m scared of losing someone who I love so much

September 04, 2019, 05:28:16 PM
Reply #1


As hard as this is to hear, I think you should listen to everyone. It’s more than one person telling you the same thing. And I know you’re in love and you can’t see him being that way but if everyone feels he’s bad you should listen to them...

September 06, 2019, 05:06:35 PM
Reply #2


They're probably right. If he has abused people in the past he is likely to do it again. But people can always change, perhaps give it a shot, bring up the topic, talk to him about it. Maybe he is willing to change. All people can do bad, if everyone leaves him because of his past hes gonna be alone forever. Im not saying that you should put your life on the line and accept abuse. But maybe give him a chance.

September 08, 2019, 12:44:55 PM
Reply #3


I think you should forget about him. it may be too hard to do because you have feelings for him but if you get together most likely you will get hurt and your heart would be broken, too.

September 09, 2019, 02:34:01 AM
Reply #4

Shelli Lopez

Hmmm right....If more than one people saying about him that he is not a good guy. I know you trust him a lot and you don't want to listen anything wrong about him. But I think there is something you haven't noticed yet. Must watch this if you need more help https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6MR7xY-MnbI or you want to take any advice.

Good bless you!