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Author Topic: Help confused please don't judge

February 04, 2020, 03:36:04 PM
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lostjuliet


So little background info I meet this guy 12 years ago we was friends before anything happend as I had a bf at that time but we spilt up aabout 6 weeks later and I ended up sleeping with the guy called a. I then spent a year being his friend with benifits thinking we would be official he would treat me different when we was alone than when we was friends I got with my daughtera dad and cheated with him 3 times then didn't speak for over a Yr when I meet my current partner who I have been with for 7 problem is the last three years I have been having an affair with the original guy who at times has told me he does love me and just we never got our time he also had a gf of 4 years the problem is I can't get this guy out of my head no matter what I try he has now said he can't carry on because he feels guilty which I understand and a part of me is relieved because we haven't been caught and eventually we would and my life and his would be over but why do we keep ending up togther no matter what we do please no nasty comments about cheating or anything I know it's wrong but it's always been me and him are like some doomed romeo and Juliet and I just need to find away to stop this
Thanks for reading x

February 04, 2020, 05:56:37 PM
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Jpb86


That sounds like a cluster f***. Honestly, I would remove all of them from your life. Obviously your daughter's father would be difficult, but distance yourself from him. Think about how toxic these guys are. They are okay with cheating. Do you really want them in your life? Do you want to be that person? I think you need to take a long and hard look at yourself and really ask yourself what it is that you want from a man and out of a relationship.

 

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