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February 21, 2020, 05:39:47 PM
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Mayjane


I had a smear in October and they took extra swabs as I kept bleeding randomly so just wanted to check everything.

It came back negative but I didn’t know the swabs were for stds (Chlamydia etc)

My partner who I’m currently on a break with had been having symptoms throughout our relationship with rashes on his man end and always been given creams etc nothing ever went away. Anyway a few weeks ago he said he was off for a std test as had other symptoms and said he’s prob had something the full time he’s been with me (7 years) my partner nor myself didn’t know id been tested for this in October.

His tests came back positive and told me I should get checked and he was adamant it’s from prior to our relationship. So I went to the doctors yesterday and the dr told me I was tested in October and was negative. In my mind of 7 years of sleeping with my partner the chances that he had it the whole relationship would mean I would have got it? Or is there a chance I couldn’t have?

He’s got a friend (Nov time) that recently he had been partying with and acting out of character so now I’m thinking that he’s slept with her and caught something of her esp with me not having it in October. It just all seems to add up.

I obviously don’t know the ins and outs of Chlamydia and how much of a % there is that you can catch it if a partner has it. Does anyone know or would it be highly likely I would have it if he’d had it for 7 years.

Driving me insane but to be honest I think I’m right in thinking that he’s cheated on me as he was staying out, lying etc and all just seems to time it right.

February 23, 2020, 10:33:55 PM
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Ashleyausnaj


Hey girl, I would get REtested just to see if he didn’t give you the std if it was something recent.. but it is possible to not give it to the other person.. I had it once and I didn’t know until I got pregnant and my husband got tested and he didn’t .. we’ve been together for 3 almost 4 years now 🤷🏻‍♀️ But I also hear it’s harder for women to give it to men then it is for men To give to women.. hope it helps

February 26, 2020, 06:54:24 PM
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Mayjane


Hey girl, I would get REtested just to see if he didn’t give you the std if it was something recent.. but it is possible to not give it to the other person.. I had it once and I didn’t know until I got pregnant and my husband got tested and he didn’t .. we’ve been together for 3 almost 4 years now 🤷🏻‍♀️ But I also hear it’s harder for women to give it to men then it is for men To give to women.. hope it helps

The doctor just gave me tablets incase I did have it but didn’t test me. But now stupidly wish I had been tested. I’m never going to know the truth :(

March 07, 2020, 12:02:20 AM
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samsome369


hi Mayjane, it's heart broken that seeing you struggling with your relationship with your spouse.  :-[
we've all been there before. here's an article that really helped me when we were at the bottom of our relationship.
I hope it could give you some enlightenment and inspiration like it helped me  :)

http://back.ly/Ay4dc

wish you have a great future with your loved one.

May 31, 2020, 06:27:46 PM
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August 21, 2020, 04:52:07 PM
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