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August 21, 2019, 08:35:57 AM
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I was dating this guy who is in process of separation for almost 2 years. When we started dating he was living by himself in a condo. Because of his financial situation he needed to move back to his matrimonial home with his ex wife and one of his kids. The plan was for us to move in together in September after his younger kid move to another city to start university just as the oldest one.
I never met his kids because they never wanted but they ended up sabotaging our move in together just because they dont want that to happen. My boyfriend cancelled the leased house agreement and gave up the plan.

I am feeling unimportant, as a second option, I understand his kids are important to him but living in his house with his ex wife and still date me is awful and he also said is not a option to move out by himself. I broke up with him, I dont want to be with a guy who is living with his wife just to keep his sons happy.

Can someone please be honest with me and tell me if I am wrong?   :'(
« Last Edit: August 21, 2019, 08:42:42 AM by Pixo1984 »

August 21, 2019, 04:46:51 PM
Reply #1


Sounds to me like you made the right move!!! You deserve so much more than that kind of behaviour from a man. He is putting you dead last in terms of his priorities. You need to find a man who not just says but shows he wants to be with you. Best to leave him aside and not waste your time thinking about him so that you can allow yourself more time and energy to focus on finding someone who will treat you with the respect you deserve.

August 23, 2019, 04:49:47 AM
Reply #2


Hi there, what you did was the right thing to do, he had no intentions of putting you at the top of his list or even second behind his kids, you are actually nowhere on his list,  he showed you that you are not important to him. Go find somebody that has your happiness at the top of his list and you go and find a love that you deserve

August 24, 2019, 07:45:28 AM
Reply #3


I understand your concern.

I didn't know what to do and who to turn to. I don't have many friends and none that can really help me emotionally. I have a small family and I don't want them to know of what my wife has done because they still love her too and I don't want them thinking less of her. It's kinda funny how almost a year ago she came to me and said she felt trapped in our marriage, but it was really me who is trapped. Trapped my heart, trapped by her, but thanks to

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