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Author Topic: He wants me to quit my job after marriage

August 30, 2018, 10:48:46 PM
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madewhite25


My boyfriend of 5 years proposed to me and I gladly accepted the proposal. Now, we’re discussing our plans post-wedding. One thing that hit me most is his demand for me to quit my job after we get married. I work in a foreign marriage agency he says he feels uncomfortable with me working there. Basically, we match foreign individuals and assist these couples of the all the legal documents and such. Should I agree with him? I’ve been working since before we met and he knows full well what I do for a living. Why now? Why can’t I keep working?

August 31, 2018, 03:54:43 PM
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goodevening


My boyfriend of 5 years proposed to me and I gladly accepted the proposal. Now, we’re discussing our plans post-wedding. One thing that hit me most is his demand for me to quit my job after we get married. I work in a foreign marriage agency he says he feels uncomfortable with me working there. Basically, we match foreign individuals and assist these couples of the all the legal documents and such. Should I agree with him? I’ve been working since before we met and he knows full well what I do for a living. Why now? Why can’t I keep working?

That's wrong, why the sudden interest?

Was he all OK with your job before your marriage?

Does your job make you happy, are you happy in it?

I don't understand why he would be against your job, does it pay bad?

September 03, 2018, 07:13:27 AM
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RoseKaizer


Maybe he want you to focus on family that both of you will build. It's not that he don't want your job.

 

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