Lets Chat Love
Register An AccountLogin

Author Topic: He wants me to quit my job after marriage

August 31, 2018, 03:48:46 AM
Read 223 times
Offline

madewhite25


My boyfriend of 5 years proposed to me and I gladly accepted the proposal. Now, we’re discussing our plans post-wedding. One thing that hit me most is his demand for me to quit my job after we get married. I work in a foreign marriage agency he says he feels uncomfortable with me working there. Basically, we match foreign individuals and assist these couples of the all the legal documents and such. Should I agree with him? I’ve been working since before we met and he knows full well what I do for a living. Why now? Why can’t I keep working?

August 31, 2018, 08:54:43 PM
Reply #1
Offline

goodevening


My boyfriend of 5 years proposed to me and I gladly accepted the proposal. Now, we’re discussing our plans post-wedding. One thing that hit me most is his demand for me to quit my job after we get married. I work in a foreign marriage agency he says he feels uncomfortable with me working there. Basically, we match foreign individuals and assist these couples of the all the legal documents and such. Should I agree with him? I’ve been working since before we met and he knows full well what I do for a living. Why now? Why can’t I keep working?

That's wrong, why the sudden interest?

Was he all OK with your job before your marriage?

Does your job make you happy, are you happy in it?

I don't understand why he would be against your job, does it pay bad?

September 03, 2018, 12:13:27 PM
Reply #2
Offline

RoseKaizer


Maybe he want you to focus on family that both of you will build. It's not that he don't want your job.

 

Related Topics

  Subject / Started by Replies Last post
5 Replies
305 Views
Last post August 16, 2018, 01:55:29 PM
by NesMarcos
2 Replies
163 Views
Last post August 22, 2018, 05:04:36 PM
by jaymish
16 Replies
662 Views
Last post February 18, 2019, 04:22:59 PM
by winstonjack
1 Replies
145 Views
Last post December 13, 2018, 10:30:30 PM
by missg