We've been dating for about 9 months. I'm 31 and he's 30.

Since the beginning, he claims to have a low sex drive and says that he's at his limit on the amount of times we have sex per week (2-3 times during a good week). He'll also sometimes tell me that we shouldn't have had sex because he's at his limit.

He doesn't hide the fact that he watches porn and masturbates to it. Although I don't know how often he does it.

Other than that he tells me that he loves me all the time.

Do I need to accept that he's just not that attracted to me even though maybe he does love me?

I wouldn't go straight to the notion that it is an attraction issue, more than it is one of porn being habit and comfort based.

At least personally, I consider sex with my partner totally separately from porn. One revolves around intimacy, the other is more of a psychological comfort zone that helps me de-stress.

I suppose what I'm saying is that the mechanical aspect of masturbation is more of mood/stress tool than it is an indicator of attraction.

Not sure if that makes sense.