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August 31, 2018, 07:16:53 AM
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Sparkle1317


Thanks for taking the time to answer my question appreciate it .
I’m completely heartbroken and devastated 💔😢...I been with my now (ex) boyfriend for 1 year who is a wonderful person very kind and down to earth ..when we first got together he told me that he and two older kids (14,17) by two different women and a baby on the way by another woman .. he explain to me that they where never in an exclusive relationship but they where having sex on and off for the past 4 Year’s .. he even had relationships with other women in between .. well she could have kids because of fibroids but for some reason she end up pregnant . Well through out the pregnancy he was there physically but not sexually .. well he always say I don’t wanna be with her just because she’s pregnant and that he wasn’t attracted to her .. well after the baby born (currently 5 months) he started to act different he was doing things a boyfriend would do when it comes to his baby mother .. he had her sleep over at his house every other weekend ( he claimed that he wanted his mother to have a bond with his son) then he would take her to the movies drop her to wrk do her laundry and even take her grocery shopping .. well all of a sudden he’s saying he’s not the man for me I can do better ,, then he said that he have a better connection with her she likes the same things he like and he learn from her  and I’m not the woman for him .. then he’s saying he owes it to his son to make it wrk with the mother cuz all of his 2 other kids he tried ..  I’m completely devastated and heart broken. How can he go from saying that he never though he find a woman like me and I make him happy and him not being attracted to her to she’s the woman for him.  ? Am I wrong for wanting to fight for him or should I just leave it along .. heartbroken 💔😢💔😢💔

August 31, 2018, 08:52:42 PM
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Thanks for taking the time to answer my question appreciate it .
I’m completely heartbroken and devastated 💔😢...I been with my now (ex) boyfriend for 1 year who is a wonderful person very kind and down to earth ..when we first got together he told me that he and two older kids (14,17) by two different women and a baby on the way by another woman .. he explain to me that they where never in an exclusive relationship but they where having sex on and off for the past 4 Year’s .. he even had relationships with other women in between .. well she could have kids because of fibroids but for some reason she end up pregnant . Well through out the pregnancy he was there physically but not sexually .. well he always say I don’t wanna be with her just because she’s pregnant and that he wasn’t attracted to her .. well after the baby born (currently 5 months) he started to act different he was doing things a boyfriend would do when it comes to his baby mother .. he had her sleep over at his house every other weekend ( he claimed that he wanted his mother to have a bond with his son) then he would take her to the movies drop her to wrk do her laundry and even take her grocery shopping .. well all of a sudden he’s saying he’s not the man for me I can do better ,, then he said that he have a better connection with her she likes the same things he like and he learn from her  and I’m not the woman for him .. then he’s saying he owes it to his son to make it wrk with the mother cuz all of his 2 other kids he tried ..  I’m completely devastated and heart broken. How can he go from saying that he never though he find a woman like me and I make him happy and him not being attracted to her to she’s the woman for him.  ? Am I wrong for wanting to fight for him or should I just leave it along .. heartbroken 💔😢💔😢💔

Hi again, sorry to hear that it's not going well.

I think yo need to try and move on from the situation, and as tough as it may seem currently, you will eventually get through it.

Sometimes these things in life aren't meant to be, and in time the reason why it wasn't meant to be will reveal itself and you will completely understand.

I do hope you get better soon, you need to surround yourself with positive people and keep yourself occupied!
Your friendly neighborhood moderator.=)

 

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