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August 06, 2018, 12:34:47 PM
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RoseKaizer


My sister have a boyfriend, one day my sister introduce his boyfriend to our family and I noticed that the guy is so cute. I actually have a Crush on him. Is it Okay to have a crush on my sisters boyfriend?

August 07, 2018, 06:20:22 AM
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all-mad-here


Sometimes we can't help who we have little crushes on. It's pretty common, especially if the guy is especially nice, funny, or good-looking, and it's someone that you see regularly...like, say, a sister's boyfriend. :)

The important thing is how you handle the crush. Obviously, you're not going to try to steal your sister's boyfriend away from her, right? That would definitely be inappropriate. Decide from the very beginning that, whatever you think you feel, he is strictly off limits. Thoughts are okay (maybe not ideal, but also unavoidable) whereas actions are NOT okay.

I've been there and done that, and the good news is that crushes, when not acted upon, usually fade after a little while. So don't be ashamed - just keep reminding yourself that he's off limits - and keep an eye out for someone who is just as cute but available for flirting. Good luck!
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August 09, 2018, 07:38:39 PM
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sidica


I think it can happen to have a crush on a person that you shouldn't, like the boyfriend from one of your friends, your sisters, or just someone that you know you are not allowed to feel attracted by; just don't over think about it and dont feed this feeling.
As long as you start seeing this person as a friend and don't cross the line, you'll be fine, but avoid having unnecesary contact with this person because there's a risk of falling in the themptation if you dont take care. We have an expression  in my country in regards to that ¨ the determination is strong but the flesh is weak¨, better don't trust the hormones.

August 14, 2018, 12:14:24 PM
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Jenniferdainty


There's nothing wrong having a crush on someone. It's a normal feeling and we cannot control that. However, you should know your limitations. For your case, you must keep in your mind that your crush is your sister's boyfriend. Having said that, it's a no no to flirt with him. You could treat him like a friend or a brother and by doing that, you are already respecting your sister. Always remember that your love with your sister is bigger than the infatuation that you're feeling on her boyfriend. :)

August 23, 2018, 10:54:14 AM
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Donyababoy


We tend to admire people because they have a set of good qualities. By what you have stated the guy was actually introduction worthy to the whole fam bam that's why you were able to meet him. By this, I bet he has those set of good qualities, we people as what I have said earlier, admire. Having a crush on your sisters boyfriend is okay but don't sniff along that road for too long. Be guarded, smile with that little fancy but always remind yourself that he is already in a relationship and to put into much more notice, with your own sister.

August 23, 2018, 11:15:12 AM
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Crunky8


I don't think it would be better idea to crush on him. Rather to find out someone else.

 

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