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Author Topic: Guy is being flakey with replying and making future plans

January 06, 2020, 11:06:44 PM
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sambam4408


I met a guy on a dating app and we went on two dates and it seemed like everything was going pretty good. After our second date, he asked for my snapchat and we started communicating through that. He sucks at replying, he'll take a couple hours to open a message and then most of the time he'll take hours to reply after that. He'll message me a couple times throughout the day and say things like "we should hang out soon" "when are we going to hang out again?" and I'll tell him when I'm free, and nothing in response. It's weird. Like if he didn't want to see me anymore why ask for my snapchat? Or why keep snapchatting me and mentioning hanging out again, but not ever trying to plan something out?

January 08, 2020, 09:17:58 AM
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phinjennings425


Don't message him, and wait for him to message you again. If he does, and says "hey we should hang out". Say yeah I've tried but you never get back to me, so I quit trying. See what he says then. More than likely, he just isn't that into you.

January 29, 2020, 09:39:19 AM
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Kkxrina


Girl I think you're being a bit overbearing, you guys have only been on two dates I think you need to slow down your expectations a bit and get a hobby. This guy has shown interest in going out with you and that's the most important thing, you can't expect people to be in touch 24/7 especially if they have things to do, a life of their own. Focus on yourself and your hobby allow him to lead the way, and don't think too much about him remember it was only two dates calm down. Live life, have fun.

January 30, 2020, 09:39:17 PM
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natalia


I don't think he's intentionally trying to ignore you, maybe he's gotten so busy with work, school and his friends that he forgets to Snapchat you back or something or he's not very good with social media and simply does not like to use it. I wouldn't read to much into it, but if it's bothering you why don't you give it some time, and if you hear nothing back express how you feel about the situation to him and see if you guys can come to a solution that benefits both of you.

 

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