I am 23 and never had a boyfriend before or dated. I am 5'4 and 119 lbs but no guys seem interested in me. I used to think I am not ugly but now I am starting to think I am because I never get male attention. I haven't tried online dating but whenever I go out, men never hit on me, flirt, or approach me. I never even have had a guy ask for my number or leave his number. I feel like I won't ever date anyone or get a boyfriend. It honestly makes me so sad because I hear stories of other women getting hit on so much by men but this practically never happens to me. The last time I was hit on was 2 years ago by my uber driver and he told me I was very attractive. I feel like other women have it so easily but I have it so hard and I don't understand why. I feel so forever alone.

I wouldn't feel so bad on yourself, and I'd most certainly give online dating a go. Tinder, Match.com etc, it's perfectly normal to do online stating + it can help you boost your confidence!

Hello! I feel the same way as you. Never had a boyfriend nor get hit on. But don't make this a reason for you to feel alone or sad. Maybe God plans to give you a nice and respectful guy. Maybe there is already a guy who likes you but you just don't know. Just wait maybe the guy would be you first and last. Your still young and you still have a long way ahead of you.

Never admit that you are an ugly duckling. I have some friends who became an old maid regardless of their looks. But the common denominator among then is the lack of social life. From work, they go straight home. On weekends, they just stay home. And they are choosy with friends that gave an impression that not anyone can be their friends.

In short, change your attitude and outlook to be a little outgoing. Have a friendlier demeanor so that people will gravitate towards you. Lastly, don't forget to smile at people most of the time. A smile is a magnet for people.

I am 23 and never had a boyfriend before or dated. I am 5'4 and 119 lbs but no guys seem interested in me. I used to think I am not ugly but now I am starting to think I am because I never get male attention. I haven't tried online dating but whenever I go out, men never hit on me, flirt, or approach me. I never even have had a guy ask for my number or leave his number. I feel like I won't ever date anyone or get a boyfriend. It honestly makes me so sad because I hear stories of other women getting hit on so much by men but this practically never happens to me. The last time I was hit on was 2 years ago by my uber driver and he told me I was very attractive. I feel like other women have it so easily but I have it so hard and I don't understand why. I feel so forever alone.

Hey, don't you worry. There's a reason behind that. I was like you before that I felt like no will ever like me maybe because I am just that kind of women or something like that. Since I am very hopeless at that time, I prayed for that guy (my crush) to like me back but become friends only. I am not totally expecting that he will gonna court me but at first I don't want to entertain him because I knew that he was a bad boy and since I only want friends but one time when we find time to talk, in the middle of conversation, he suddenly kissed me on my lips and I was shocked and it really feels like an electricity strikes my body. I am not really planning to accept him but then I felt like at that time I don't want him to disappear in my life and eventually we became lovers (now an ex). When we we're in relationship (8months), I felt like I'm the only one giving the effort in our relationship. What's more important for him was his friends and games. He is an alcoholic and he don't even asked for permission when planning to go out with his friends. Our relationship was very toxic and he even had a guts to court other girls even I was his current girlfriend at that time. When we were in relationship, one time I heard a news that my family friend liked me for a long time but he don't have guts to tell the truth because he wanted to be successful first and wanted to court my parents first before me. He want my parents to be proud of him so he really wanted to fulfill his dream to become a military. I forgot that I have prayed before hoping that someday there will be one guy which will accept me and will do everything for me in a right time. He will love my parents and respect me. One thing I realized that we must wait for the right man to come, just pray and don't pray for a certain person that he/ she will like you back. Just let God find a perfect guy for you. I also realized that maybe there's a reason why sometimes we feel like no one likes us even if there is/are without knowing us maybe because we are emotionally weak and some of us will easily fall from their tricks which can cause regrets. Now I enjoy myself being single and I love it!.

Enjoy your life being single and love yourself first. How will you love others if you don't love yourself?It will eventually come but don't think of it first, okay?

My dear no matter how ugly one thinks she is, there is a man out there is going to love you for who you are and how you look, and he will be willing to go to the ends of the earth to make you feel better, happy and loved. So my advice to you is to never be the one that looks down on yourself first because that ought to get you depressed.

I feel the same way about myself.

Dont think too much about that, youre just 23 years old, youre not old enough to get hopeless about love. Just wait and everythings will be fine.