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Author Topic: Etiquette for bringing boyfriend along to mates nights

February 11, 2020, 09:06:07 AM
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lalachloe


Hi,

My boyfriend has a group of mates, who when they meet up, all bring their other half's and i'm always invited.

Now my friendship group is different. I don't have a group of mates, i have a few individual ones who i see now and again. they don't have boyfriends.

My boyfriend is moaning that i'm not including him by bringing him along now and again. But this is an odd dynamic to me, say i went to dinner with my friend April, i would find it and i feel she would also find it weird and uncomfortable.

my friend Natasha also had a birthday party and my boyfriend got upset that i didn't ask her if he could come? she has no boyfriend and it was a girls night and i didnt feel comfortable inviting him? when i did eventually ask her if he could come (to stop him going on) she said yeah thats fine but i felt awkward like maybe she didnt want to say no?

i respect my friend's feelings aka they have every right to meet me alone if they want to but my OH is saying i care about their feelings but not his?

am i wrong? what can i do about this?

 

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