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Author Topic: Did she lie to me?

September 16, 2020, 12:58:28 AM
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DingoTom


3 years after we got married, my wife said sex hurt
2 more years pass, and she does little to make sex a priority.

After a lot of digging, I finally learned that sex had ALWAYS hurt, even when we met?

When I ask 'why did you wait 3 years to tell me that sex hurt?'
here is here reply :

“I did not make a conscious and obvious choice of hmm... do I tell him or not tell him? Do I tell him now or next week? Or after we are married? I did not think “is this ok or not”? All I thought was perhaps this is just how it is. Until I realized that belief is probably flawed. So I spoke up."

Ladies - is she lying to herself and me? or just me?


September 16, 2020, 02:40:36 PM
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gally137


Sex used to hurt with one of my ex boyfriends so she might be telling the truth, and its a tricky conversation to bring up, I never properly spoke to my ex about it as its a bit of a sad topic.  i think its unfair to assume that she's lying. But your main issue is that she doesnt satify you sexually anymore. You should talk to her and say this is bothering you and ask her why. Try to come up with solutions as she should enjoy sex, so figure out why. If its that it hurts, find ways to make it not hurt, do more foreplay, ask her what she wants, be open. Maybe go to the doctor or see a therapist. But the key is finding a solution where you are both happy by listening to each others concerns.

September 24, 2020, 11:15:21 AM
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