I’ve had a crush on one of my work colleagues for a while it’s been 2 years i believe and I never told anyone so no one knew about it but we hardly see each other as we don’t always have the same shifts.. we only greet each other but recently someone told me he was asking about me as he hasn’t seen me in a while then later on he followed me on Instagram and messaged me. We talked for a bit but then sometimes he would take days to reply back which was weird since he made the first move and at one point he ignored me. So I saw him at work he waved at me from far and messaged me the next day and I kept my replies short because I didn’t want to be ignored again. So we stopped talking and I didn’t see him for monthsssss but last week I was working and he came over to my department to say hello to my other colleague and he said hi to me to and walked off so my colleague said this is weird as me and him already spoke twice before you started I think he came over because of you I just laughed off and he asked me what I think of him and I said I find him attractive but it’s a bit tooo attractive and later on I went on break and work colleague comes up to me when I come back from break and says I spoke to him and he seems like he likes you and your his type and he wants to get to know you and I just brushed it off but the next day he messaged me and we’ve talked the whole day yesterday but today he’s doing the same thing reading my messages and not replying for hoursss and now he just left me on read and hasn’t replied back and my replies is not ones that you can’t reply back to since I asked questions and plus he’s liking pictures on insta so he’s not clearly not busy .. I’m very confused I don’t know what to do, I don’t think he actually likes me.. what do guys think I should do?

He might be interested in you or like that he got attention from you. In my opinion I think you should not waste your time on him. Ask him what he feels about you. It might clear your head.

He might be interested in you or like that he got attention from you. In my opinion I think you should not waste your time on him. Ask him what he feels about you. It might clear your head.

Yeah I feel like his wasting my time right now.. thanks for the advice x