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Author Topic: Could you live in a relationship with a dream man uninterested in sex

September 01, 2019, 04:37:07 PM
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joella



I would like to hear your opinions.

Could you stay in a relationship with someone who is loving, amazing, emphatic, successful and bright.... but has no general interest in sex or showing you affection?

(I am talking less than once a month, the guy never take initiative, treat sex as a chore, with no excitement for the sex act nor the female body).

I personally is gotten depressed, my low esteem has gone missing and I am starting to lose myself. I have always believed affection and attraction is such an important part of a realtionship, and this is a big part of me. But now i don't know what to do anymore.. after talking about it for years.

When are you allowed to get a lover?  :-\

September 01, 2019, 06:10:44 PM
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PottedPlant


I personally couldn't, but some people can no problem. He really does sounds like a great guy, but he might not be a great guy for you, which is what matters here. If you've talked to him about it and it hasn't changed, it means he has no interesting in changing because, to him, it's not a big issue, if that makes sense.

It sounds like the two of you (not one of you, both of  you) need to make a compromise of some sort, or maybe consider splitting?

September 01, 2019, 10:45:12 PM
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TheGoodGirl


I don't know if I could be in a relationship like that.

 

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