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Author Topic: Confused by fiancé

February 08, 2020, 02:37:19 PM
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Katy100


Ok so I’ll try and make this as short as possible. Me and fiancé have been engaged for a year and together for 5 years. We’ve had our ups and downs and still managed to get through them. We’re looking to buy a house and I though everything was all ok but I’m getting mixed messages.

He keeps saying I’m miserable so I pulled him up on it and turns out he always thinks I’m miserable and put a downer on things. I asked him why he was with me and why were we engaged / buying a house if he felt this. He said because he loves me ....I asked if I make him happy and he said sometimes! Another alarm bell.
The conversation rolled on and the conversation of children came up - I always thought children were a certainty but apparently he doesn’t want kids until he’s 100% sure he’s with that person forever. Again the question of why did you ask me to marry you if you felt we might not be together forever?

He doesn’t think we’re in a bad place and just wants me to stop being miserable ..... that would be easy enough if I was actually miserable ! I don’t know how to be or tbh what’s the next step to take that’s right.

I want to buy a house , get married and have children but If I only make him happy sometimes and he’s not sure 100% we’re going to be together forever what do I do? He thinks the house will make us happier .... I’m scared it won’t .

Need some advice please- sorry if it’s all a mess to read

 

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