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Author Topic: Cheated his girlfriend with me for a while, need advice

November 18, 2019, 04:23:15 PM
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Ok, I was seeing a guy for  two months, and we had sex,  and at that time i didn't know that he has a girlfriend. I fell in love and I wanted to be with him and it was casual at the begining then when any other guy approached me he got jealous and I didn't know what to think anymore. When I found out that he has a girlfriend, I was shocked and saw him two times after that, and then I decided not to do this anymore. He and his girlfriend are in a long distance relationship, and see each other once a month.  I am sad because I fell in love, but also I don't want to get involved in another relationship with two people. Last time we saw, he said that his relationship is at crossroads and I didn't understand that. Was he just using me?

November 25, 2019, 08:45:29 PM
Reply #1


Get out of that. That is not healthy. It sounds like he's stringing you along. The first red flag is that he was cheating on his girlfriend with you which could lead to you having him doing the same to you. You deserve better. Him getting jealous is another huge red flag. Move on hon.

November 26, 2019, 05:17:43 AM
Reply #2

Captain Black

Your acting basically as a substitute for his girlfriend. You will always be second fiddle and probably wants you for the physical side of things whilst his true love is some distance away .Its not too different than an affair and nothing good comes out of these type of arrangements.

You need to move on

November 26, 2019, 08:52:06 AM
Reply #3


I had a guy do something similar to me. He told me he is not over his ex and that we should just sleep with each other because it's unfair for me if he still thinks about her and he only wants to focus on me and our relationship. One time I got tired of his bulls*it excuses and I didn't reply him on social media when he asked me to come over to his home. You know what he did next? Blocked me the next day and found a new girlfriend 2-3 days after that.

Eventually discuss with him ask him if he really loves that girl or he stays with her out of "pity". Trust me there are guys like that. I was also in a long-distance relationship for 3 years as well.

He might not be decided yet but if he doesn't want to get in a relationship with you and finds excuses please forget him before you suffer.

November 28, 2019, 04:45:31 PM
Reply #4


Thank you for your replies. The last time we saw each other, he asked me lots of questions and asked me about my relationships, and he said that I am his. But, he only texts me on Fridays and Saturdays. When I sent him the message that I don't want to do this and to be a girl who sleeps with someone who has a girlfriend he sent me thumbs up :D

March 07, 2020, 01:09:17 AM
Reply #5


hi gal, I was in your shoes before. and here's an article that really helped me when I was struggling at the bottom.
I hope it could give you some enlightenment and inspiration like it helped me  :)


wish you have a great future with your loved one.


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