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December 06, 2019, 05:45:38 AM
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Dolores


This is a longer story but my boyfriend and I have been together for 2yrs and he separated from his exwife 3.5yrs ago. Him and I work together this is where we met and I am being let go under some stressful circumstances. A couple of weeks ago my bf asked if he could have some space because he is finally getting around to the official divorce process. He just dumped this on me after a wonderful dinner as he was dropping me off. He's asking for 6 month to a year. I'm heartbroken because I'm losing my job and now him during a very vulnerable time. He asked how he could support me and I asked him to come to my private farewell lunch at work. I explained that it means a lot to me because of the role he played during my time there. He said no because he doesn't want us to fall back into our relationship and even though he hasn't started the divorce he needs this space that has to start now. What do I do? How do I respond? Is he cheating? What is fair to ask? Was I asking for too much?
« Last Edit: December 06, 2019, 05:49:41 AM by Dolores »

December 09, 2019, 12:32:55 AM
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February 19, 2020, 07:14:48 PM
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AdroDaBest


Men deal with stress differently to women. Men like to hide in there "cave" where they either think of a solution to their problems or try to distract themselves. If you try to enter his "cave" you will be attacked by the "dragon" that "guards" it. Just let him come out in his own time. It's perfectly natural male process.

February 20, 2020, 10:11:28 AM
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March 07, 2020, 12:57:25 AM
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samsome369


hi gal, I was in your shoes before. and here's an article that really helped me when I was struggling at the bottom.
I hope it could give you some enlightenment and inspiration like it helped me  :)

bit.ly/WhatHeReallyWant

wish you have a great future with your loved one.
« Last Edit: April 04, 2020, 05:17:34 PM by samsome369 »

April 01, 2020, 02:11:37 AM
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DreamGuyxo


It seems like you really appreciate your boyfriend

Asking these questions is a great idea for you

The situation that your in is something that comes around not so often but it’s better for your end because it could teach you a thing or two on something that you never saw coming

A man is very vulnerable especially when commitment and love is being brought up

One thing about a girl (or boy) that is left to side being the “vulnerable” one is that they always come back ten times stronger

I would definitely give him his space, In the mean time also keep your priorities in check and look for opportunities that could make you stronger and greater in your own road space

When you come to working on yourself and prioritizing things that make you stronger slowly but surely get back with him and see how things go,

Most love and positivity works best for the both of you 

 

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