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Author Topic: Blocked, unblocked and blocked again

April 02, 2019, 11:39:21 AM
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knockatallon


Hi . I met a guy on badoo and we hit it off.  We chatted for the next 3 weeks via video messages etc . We were excited about meeting.  He would text me as soon as he woke, alot during the day and last thing at night. The wkend he had his kids he changed. He was quiet etc and I asked him had he changed his mind and he said no but he was still quiet. My gut told me something wasn't right.  That evening I texted and said what u up to and he said playing with the kids but he was abrupt.  No texts the next day and when I asked him what was wrong he accused me of not trusting him and I made him angry cos I was questioning him. It escalated and he blocked me.  I was gutted. 10 days later he unblocked  me and apologised and said he got scared. He obviously started an argument as an excuse to end things.  I forgave him and we met and we didn't have sex.  We were besotted and spoke for the next 2 weeks.  The day before he was due to travel to me he said his mot failed and he couldn't come up.  I thought it very coincidental.  He was quiet  again. I didn't hear from him for over a day and I thought he ghosted me again. He got angry and said I didn't trust him  and he had a bad hangover and was sick all day. It escalated again and he said I don't think this is gonna work because u don't trust me.  Then he'd said his dad's dementia is getting worse and he won't be able to move here in the future because he needs to help his dad. He broke up with me and I was devastated.  We were besotted with eachother and he was extremely happy on the phone everyday. The next day I noticed him online alot but no message. I said if u don't see a future with me then block me and that's exactly what he did.  I don't get it! He was counting down the days til our next date and then he does this. He had nothing to hide as I was his Facebook friend and Instagram.  Do you think hel unblock me again or is this it? He's scared of something and I know he cared for me

 

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