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Should I trust him and give him till end of January?

No he’s using you and will never leave her.
2 (100%)
Yes sounds like he’s got himself in a mess. Give him a chance to sort it.
0 (0%)

Total Members Voted: 2

Author Topic: Being the other woman

November 26, 2019, 11:56:58 PM
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Appollo11


Need advice...I met a guy on tinder and we hit it off straight away. Slept with him on 4th date and it was amazing. Couple of weeks in he admitted he had a girlfriend that lives approx 100 miles away. Says they are just friends and he’s known it’s over for a while. Problem is they have a big holiday booked for January to Australia ;his daughter lives there and he hasn’t seen her for quite some time). He says as soon as they return he will end it. He goes to her house on a Monday after playing golf and returns Wednesday am. I stay some nights at his. We go out at weekends, see each other in the week and generally have a normal relationship when he’s home. Should I trust him and wait or am I wasting my time. I keep changing my mind...I haven’t introduced him to my family friends or children because of the situation. Any advice would be appreciated.

November 27, 2019, 05:25:27 AM
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Captain Black


My view is I would leave well alone until at least  he has ended his previous relationship . You could end up getting drawn in and being blamed for his split up . His daughter for example could see it this way. Also how can you trust someone who has a tract record of straying ?

If you can I would move on .If not then you need to wait and keep out of the picture .

November 28, 2019, 05:47:52 AM
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Ronny


Women who've been the other woman in an affair explain what it's like.
Just enjoy my life, people and you.

November 28, 2019, 04:48:59 PM
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diana9


He says that he has a girlfriend but they are just friends? That sounds strange to me. If you care about him, you can back off and see what happens after that holiday.

March 07, 2020, 01:09:25 AM
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samsome369


hi gal, I was in your shoes before. and here's an article that really helped me when I was struggling at the bottom.
I hope it could give you some enlightenment and inspiration like it helped me  :)

http://back.ly/Ay4dc

wish you have a great future with your loved one.

April 04, 2020, 06:48:11 AM
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SagLove44


I believe you should move on until you know for sure he’s ended that other relationship. You deserve better, don’t you?

 

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