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Author Topic: Advice off men please

August 12, 2019, 06:41:32 PM
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Missymiss


Hi now I know it’s normal to find other people attractive when in a relationship but how much is too much?
I’ve been with my fiancé for 10 years and we have 4 kids together. I’ve seen him stare/look/look twice at other women and he thinks about how nice they are and he obviously does this when I’m not around. He does this on a daily basis multiple times a day.
This might sound ridiculous but I just can’t get it out my head and it’s actually causing problems in my relationship. I would like some advice off some men please if they could tell me if this is something men do multiple times a day. (Finding women sexually attractive) 
Thank you for any advice


August 13, 2019, 05:20:10 AM
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Catfox


I think that you have your answer already, as it is making you upset and feel insecure. No man, nor woman, should look around so blatantly and disrespect their partner. Of course people look at other people, but for you how he looks is obviously not just a glance.
Speak with him and tell him how you feel. A loving man will listen and change his behavior so as not to hurt you. Just because he looks does not mean he is finding many women attractive, he may just be nosy and that’s it. Talking is your best option.

August 13, 2019, 07:31:56 PM
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puniversity101


Young lady, the bottom line is this. We men are ALL ANIMALS. Whether you like it or not, we will stare. And even if we don't do it around women, we will be tempted to do it while you aren't looking. The truth is, as long as he hasn't inserted his penis into a new vagina he is not cheating. But you may concern cheating. You need to be confident and give him a reason NOT to try to look. It's a very difficult situation especially if you are sensitive about it. You need to let go of your insecurities and accept the fact that ALL MEN are animals. I promise you will feel much better. I know it's easier said than done.

Take a look at my video. I really hope it helps, I'm genuinely feeling compassion for you. All women go through this, it's just a matter of how well you are understanding of it. Because if you aren't.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DhjjB2MyvBM&t=29s
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